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I guess what I mean about breaking the ice. What do you say in a interest that your attempting to woo. You would think cause I have dictionary brain I could come up with something, better then " Hey nice profile. Lets chat sometime". I just find it hard. Perhaps cause its easy for everyone else. 
Seems like maybe your just a bit shy..and thats ok. I use to be that way when I was younger. but as I live life, it taught me there nothing really to be "shy" or "scared" of. It could also be due to my own life. I have my own motto .. "I fear so little, because I have overcome so much". As for what do you say to a woman?? Just be yourself. An example..going to use Hawaii for this..I hope she does not mind. "Hi Hawaii, my name is Steve. I had read your post and seen your profile and just wanted to introduce myself and say hello. You have a GREAT smile! And it seems we have some things in common,like music, concerts, walking on the beach, etc., maybe we could chat sometime? If you're interested in chatting, hit me back! Hope to hear from you! Take Care! Steve " Thats basically it. Nothing fancy, its just a "hi" and an introduction. No "lines" no games, no bs. Just my opinion. I'm single and no date...so maybe I'm just wrong! 
Gonna cut and paste this..hope I remember to change the names
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I guess what I mean about breaking the ice. What do you say in a interest that your attempting to woo. You would think cause I have dictionary brain I could come up with something, better then " Hey nice profile. Lets chat sometime". I just find it hard. Perhaps cause its easy for everyone else.
Seems like maybe your just a bit shy..and thats ok. I use to be that way when I was younger. but as I live life, it taught me there nothing really to be "shy" or "scared" of. It could also be due to my own life. I have my own motto .. "I fear so little, because I have overcome so much". As for what do you say to a woman?? Just be yourself. An example..going to use Hawaii for this..I hope she does not mind. "Hi Hawaii, my name is Steve. I had read your post and seen your profile and just wanted to introduce myself and say hello. You have a GREAT smile! And it seems we have some things in common,like music, concerts, walking on the beach, etc., maybe we could chat sometime? If you're interested in chatting, hit me back! Hope to hear from you! Take Care! Steve " Thats basically it. Nothing fancy, its just a "hi" and an introduction. No "lines" no games, no bs. Just my opinion. I'm single and no date...so maybe I'm just wrong!
Your right to an extent I am shy about breaking the ice. But its more so cause I don't want to say something really stupid that just makes me out to look like a big moron. 
Well I am 35. So I wouldn't consider it to be too young. But I think its more of the fear of the rejection that I really don't know what to say. |
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I want to go to hawaii!!
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look... if you're nice, they're going to at LEAST be nice back... Now add to that funny, interesting, etc... and, well, at least ya made a friend...
Breaking ice... man, how else ya gonna get the fish? Sorry, couldn't resist... but really, the ice is in your head... refuse to accept that there is ICE, just be NICE, Try it TWICE, that should SUFFICE! (I'm a poet it, and I know it..) realy.. be fun, be interesting.. there IS no ice.. people are here to Meet people... they would really LIKE it if you emailed them... granted, women get dozens of emails a day, so you'll need to be interesting ( and funny ) to get through... Be nice, and nice results will happen. Be funny and interesting, and better results will happen... And don't get discouraged... like Hawaii said, "NEXT!" |
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NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT SUMTHINGDIFFERENT.
SHORT/SWEET AND SPELLED CORRECTLY. |
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I should add that not all sites provide these same results....
I was on a pay site for three months last year, never wrote to anyone first, and they did not have forums. It was "profile only." I was contacted by 174 of their members during that time, the majority of them locals, so it was clear that "breaking the ice" was not an issue on that site. Unfortunately, "reading a profile" apparently WAS an issue -- all but four of those who contacted me were immediately identifiable as non-prospects (which should have been obvious to them, had they bothered to read my profile). So, "breaking the ice" is handled differently in different venues.... |
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NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT SUMTHINGDIFFERENT. SHORT/SWEET AND SPELLED CORRECTLY. Damn straight! That 4 years in the 3rd grade paid off! 
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NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT SUMTHINGDIFFERENT. SHORT/SWEET AND SPELLED CORRECTLY. Damn straight! That 4 years in the 3rd grade paid off!
nice |
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NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT SUMTHINGDIFFERENT. SHORT/SWEET AND SPELLED CORRECTLY. Damn straight! That 4 years in the 3rd grade paid off!
 
for not giving up and hanging in there |
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Edited by
Sumthingdifferent
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Thu 12/13/07 11:33 AM
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NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT SUMTHINGDIFFERENT. SHORT/SWEET AND SPELLED CORRECTLY. Damn straight! That 4 years in the 3rd grade paid off!
for not giving up and hanging in there Thanks! I was young, only 17. But I knew to "tough it out"!
So which have you been Fran..naughty or nice??? It have to be naughty, we are wearing the same hat!
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NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT SUMTHINGDIFFERENT. SHORT/SWEET AND SPELLED CORRECTLY. Damn straight! That 4 years in the 3rd grade paid off!
for not giving up and hanging in there Thanks! I was young, only 17. But I knew to "tough it out"!
So which have you been Fran..naughty or nice???
yes 
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you takin' notes here, Iconic? hehe...
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you takin' notes here, Iconic? hehe... Um nope, just reading other topics as well. |
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I find it very hard to break the ice..I have been out of the dateing scene for so long I think I have forgotten how.
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Try these:
Red Neck Pickup Lines 1) Did you fart? Cuz you blew me away. 2) Are yer parents retarded? Cuz ya sure are special. 3) My Love fer you is like diarrhea. I can't hold it in. 4) Do you have a library card? Cuz I'd like to sign you out. 5) Is there a mirror in yer pants? Cuz I can see myself in em. 6) If you wuz a tree and I wuz a Squirrel, I'd store my nuts in yer hole. 7) You might not be the best lookin girl here, but beauty's only a light switch away. 8) Man: - 'Fat Penguin!' Woman: - 'WHAT?' Man: - 'I just wanted to say something that would break the ice.' 9) I know I'm not no Fred Flintstone, but I bet I can make yer bed-rock. 10) I can't find my puppy, can you help me find him? I think he went into this cheap motel room. 11) Yer eyes are as blue as winder cleaner. 12) If yer gunna regret this in the mornin, we kin sleep til afternoon. AND the best Redneck pick-up line: 13) Yer face reminds me of a wrench, every time I think of it my nuts tighten up |
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Try these: Red Neck Pickup Lines 1) Did you fart? Cuz you blew me away. 2) Are yer parents retarded? Cuz ya sure are special. 3) My Love fer you is like diarrhea. I can't hold it in. 4) Do you have a library card? Cuz I'd like to sign you out. 5) Is there a mirror in yer pants? Cuz I can see myself in em. 6) If you wuz a tree and I wuz a Squirrel, I'd store my nuts in yer hole. 7) You might not be the best lookin girl here, but beauty's only a light switch away. 8) Man: - 'Fat Penguin!' Woman: - 'WHAT?' Man: - 'I just wanted to say something that would break the ice.' 9) I know I'm not no Fred Flintstone, but I bet I can make yer bed-rock. 10) I can't find my puppy, can you help me find him? I think he went into this cheap motel room. 11) Yer eyes are as blue as winder cleaner. 12) If yer gunna regret this in the mornin, we kin sleep til afternoon. AND the best Redneck pick-up line: 13) Yer face reminds me of a wrench, every time I think of it my nuts tighten up Those are super funny. The only one that has worked for me.. Was ... oh forget it... lol |
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i cant believe people are still talking about this...
Just Say Hi lol |
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