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Topic: THIS IS THE DEAL
savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:10 PM
If you ever meet this man, see if he has a wealthy brother for me. I'd be happy to hook a sister up.

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:13 PM Edited by savagirl on Thu 12/13/07 02:14 PM
Hang on . I gotta get undressed. I get in flight massage. Oh I'm on the net. Internet dating site. Yeah I got my auto dictation on see everything I say it types out. Can't use emiticons though. Oh put my shoes there? Ok. What's those? Cookies? The steward brought me cookies? Oh those are those chocolate covered peanut butter cookies. I love them. Got milk? In the bar. Gotta be kidding. I get milk and cookies and a massage? What? What? What? What do you mean? Who is on? Oh I gotta call? Who is it? No ask who it is. Can't be. He's on tour and he wouldn't call me and he's not in town. No. No. Oh its probably crazy brian playing a joke on me. I'll take it hang on Whose crazy brian? Is he eligible?

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/13/07 02:13 PM
...Is it that only the non-marriage and family minded men and women are breeding? Yes, we all got married and had children because we weren't "family-minded". You really need to wake up. No-one gets married (unless for a "green card") believing they will get divorced. As we used to say in 80's, "sh it happens" and then presto you're a single parent. Even if you manage to snag an ATM with sperm, er, I mean, a man, chances are about 50-50, you'll be divorced within 10 years. I think we get what we put into it. Be hateful to man, he may be hateful to you. Reduce him and you and your children will be reduced to maybe living in swarm. It's not that simple and you are more naive than I thought if you really believe your own faerie-tale. I'm living in the SWARM, baby!

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:16 PM
...Is it that only the non-marriage and family minded men and women are breeding? Yes, we all got married and had children because we weren't "family-minded". You really need to wake up. No-one gets married (unless for a "green card") believing they will get divorced. As we used to say in 80's, "sh it happens" and then presto you're a single parent. Even if you manage to snag an ATM with sperm, er, I mean, a man, chances are about 50-50, you'll be divorced within 10 years. I think we get what we put into it. Be hateful to man, he may be hateful to you. Reduce him and you and your children will be reduced to maybe living in swarm. It's not that simple and you are more naive than I thought if you really believe your own faerie-tale. I'm living in the SWARM, baby! I guess that sums up you also have your own set of aspirations and we can end exchange here.

wmyers4u Joined Fri 09/28/07 Posts: 797	Thu 12/13/07 02:17 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow...

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/13/07 02:20 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... Heck if I know! Must be some of that educated talk...

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:20 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions.

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/13/07 02:23 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Heehee. Yup, you pegged me... For your information little girl, I was married for 15 years, have a graduate degree in English Literature, owned a successful business, and am currently a writer.

wmyers4u Joined Fri 09/28/07 Posts: 797	Thu 12/13/07 02:23 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Just remember that Jesus would not have a problem with living in a trailer park........unless a tornado was coming:)

wmyers4u Joined Fri 09/28/07 Posts: 797	Thu 12/13/07 02:24 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Heehee. Yup, you pegged me... For your information little girl, I was married for 15 years, have a graduate degree in English Literature, owned a successful business, and am currently a writer. and I love your pic with the big sign in it, that is too much

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:26 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Heehee. Yup, you pegged me... For your information little girl, I was married for 15 years, have a graduate degree in English Literature, owned a successful business, and am currently a writer. and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner?

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:27 PM
what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Just remember that Jesus would not have a problem with living in a trailer park........unless a tornado was coming:) I'm not Jesus

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/13/07 02:31 PM
and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes.

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:31 PM
For the record, I don't think challenging a person based solely on attacking their education level creates a valid argument. I still don't see why I should take so much heat from members here that I'm interested in dating successful marriage and family minded men.

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/13/07 02:32 PM
and I love your pic with the big sign in it, that is too much Heehee. Thanks. I love it too!

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:33 PM
and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected?

wmyers4u Joined Fri 09/28/07 Posts: 797	Thu 12/13/07 02:36 PM
and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected? MAny times it has little to do with choice. Sometimes people die or get brain damage from a serious accident and are never the same person you married. Picking your mate is nothing more than an educated guess followed by good luck or bad luck.

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/13/07 02:37 PM
and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected? You are naive. The real world is not black and white. Perhaps you should take a few philosophy classes.

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:41 PM
what i find amazing is that everyone is so into discussion about this. everyone needs to be comfortable and that is all she was saying. everybody took issue with her statement about being forgiving of indiscretions. well that may be a little different but it is hardly worth this level of commentary. she never said she did not prefer fidelity. she never said that she wouldn't contribute. she did say that she wants a loving relationship. she never said that she thought money was of primary importance. i think she just wanted to interact with someone who is in a position to help support her financially. this is not necessarily gold-digging. EVERYBODY wants that. so i say. stick with it savagirl. don't let them define you. i agree that who the person is - is what's is really important - not how much money they have or how much money they make. but i also do not think it is terrible to prefer to be with someone who can help you financially. in every relationship each partner contributes in different ways. Party on, Wayne! Indiscretions are not exactly attractive, but I can only presume from the number of married men that pick up on me that it's more common than we think. If I agree to marry a man, I simply realize this is a possibility. We think we're good judges of character, but still there's always the chance.

savagirl Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 355	Thu 12/13/07 02:45 PM
and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected? You are naive. The real world is not black and white. Perhaps you should take a few philosophy classes. Knowing what I want makes me naive? I disagree. This is not a challenge about education, why not stick to the topic.