why do women stop having sex with there fellas a few years into relationship any men i talk to feel same

It took mine 35 years before she stopped

Because they use it as a tool to trap you. It is the same when they promise everything but only after marriage. Most common sentence used by a woman............ I will do that after we are married!!!

They don't unless the they have a medical problem or unless their men are jerks.

Sigh... why don't you get a bit more educated?
Man & woman are wired differently. Man wants sex to get his rocks off, woman wants sex out of love, to bond.
If a relationship is healthy, and there is such a thing as bonding, it will change for a guy too, it will also be bonding to him and both will happily enjoy their sexlife and relationship.
What happens often though -because men don't know this, aren't educated on this- they begin to treat their woman differently after a while. For a woman her interest in intimacy with a man who doesn't seem to love and respect her anymore shuts down.
It's a reciprocal thing: you love and cherish your woman, she's willing to share her Sacred temple with you and shower you with love and adoration.
If there's a spanner in the works in that part, woman doesn't want sex. She DOES, just not with a man who doesn't love and respect and cherish her.
Many will resort to masturbating when the man is downstairs or gone.
The same happens when a woman loses her respect for her man. For me this happened when my ex husband didn't treat our eldest right.
I can NOT love and respect a man who's like that and I certainly can not offer my femininity -the most intimate gift a woman has to give- to a man like that.
That didn't mean I didn't want sex, lord knows I did, just not with him. And no, I didn't stray, I'm way to loyal for that. But then you find other ways OR get incredibly frustrated.

A woman is not your personal private wh0re just because she married you. If you start treating her that way, expect that of her, it's over.

And to put the record straight, there are a whole lot of men who cannot please a woman. They aren't interested in finding out what makes her tick, they do what they did with their ex(es) or what they saw in porno movies.
But every woman is different, finds different things pleasurable and arousing. you have to make the effort to find out. Most don't. They don't even THINk that they could get it wrong.

Another thing... many cannot properly penetrate as their thing doesn't get hard enough anymore. This is often to due to a weak pelvic muscle, which happens more and more as many have jobs that have them sit all day long. Then they get home and sit on the couch with a beer. Weak pelvic muscle stops a penis from getting really hard.
When that happens, a woman doesn't feel anything anymore. Pleasure gone. And it's like "wake me when you're done" for the woman and eventually she'll get fed up with the BS. If a man cannot do it properly, it's just a nuisance. Like I said, we're not private wh0res to serve the man to get his rocks off.

I know that many women have higher sexdrives than men. But if the stuff I posted above isn't right, she'll shut down. And she CAN get utterly frustrated as her high sexdrive doesn't go away. It just cannot go somewhere.
And since we don't just have sex to have sex... some can, most cannot. We're not men. So get your own chit right, how you treat her. And make it about HER, not about you trying to use her for your lust.
Sex is about love so both enjoy it. If you cannot do that, get a divorce and stick to hookers.

While it takes 2 to have a good sex life, it only takes 1 to destroy it. A man should always try to give his partner sexual pleasure and her orgasm, if he cannot, he needs to learn how. At the same time, the woman needs to understand the sexual needs of her partner. Men and women see sex as something psychologically different; unless both are able to understand the meaning of sex to their partner, it will probably eventually fail.

To understand this better, think about which comes first, sex or a relationship for men and women. Men tend to feel that if the sex stops, the relationship is over; women tend to feel that if there is a problem with the relationship, the sex is over. Equates to "which came first, the chicken or the egg". In the end, both the sex and the relationship will be destroyed.

This is why communication and listening to your partners needs and wants before you think of your own. Sex is a selfish act if it doesnt come from the heart. True love is what binds a marriage. Not sex.

I like relationships Love you my life with meeting

I totally agree!
Men you can't get lazy or take her for granted.
Make her pleasures at least as important as your own!
Keep the spark alive...

This JMO of course but I traveled everywhere for many years and knew/know a lot of women and I could count on one hand the ones I couldn't see again.
Don't be selfish...........

"True love is what binds a marriage. Not sex." That is the general perspective of women. A marriage without sex when one of the partners still wants sex is going to fail or become an open marriage. When one partner doesn't want to satisfy the needs of the other, there obviously is a communication issue or that partner is only thinking of themselves.

Hahaha At your age and physical health I doubt you can have sex. You would want a woman to satisfy your needs and wouldnt care about your wife. I suggest you start exercizing and going to the barber more often. Maybe you would get lucky.

mens age does not make a difference one you get a hard on please mate do what u can

Nonsense.

Sorry, I know it has been popular to claim this since as far back as I have been alive and before, but it's just plain not supportable by facts.

Yes, I know well that certain males claim that exactly this is true, but not all males are as honest or as self-observant as they would have to be to have this kind of report be functional.

In my life experience, I have unfortunately seen plenty of males AND females, saying exactly this, or the opposite, and then those same people proceeded to prove that they were full of crap the whole time. Women who went off with some guy just because they were horny in the moment, and wanted to get THEIR "rocks" off, and plenty of males for whom sex was an important bonding thing, and not just something to do for laughs with whoever happened by.

I myself tried very hard when I was young, to have mindless sex with strangers, as everyone around me seemed to be saying I should (since I was male), but after only a couple of events, I realized that I must not be a man, if that's what men are supposed to be about.

If you were with me, and told me that I had to woo you, seduce you, and generally coax you into having sex with me every time, I would logically conclude exactly one thing:

you don't like me as a sex partner.

I'd be gone the next day.

I'm egotistical in this way. I want to be wanted because of ME. I want a mate who likes me, and has sex whenever we can, because we both like having sex with each other. If I have to put on a show of some kind every time, then that means she doesn't want me as I am, she wants someone else, and only grudgingly allows me to occasionally take a stab at pleasing her, as a temporary stand in for the real guy.

I've been in relationships like that, and tried damn hard to believe in it, and to be actively pleasing and wooing all the time. Nothing good came of it. I'll never bother to try that again.

That doesn't mean I expect to slouch in smelling like cat urine and looking like a scarecrow that got dragged through a garbage dumpster, and have my mate coo and keen for me. It just means that as soon as someone takes out a calculator and a measuring rod before wanting to be with me, it means I've already lost her esteem and desire.

Frankly, if a possible mate assumes I'm "just another guy," then we do NOT belong together.

Does that mean I'm part female? Not a "Real Man?" Maybe. After all, I AM half female, on my mother's side. 100% heterosexual otherwise, but I do have those mom genetics at 50% in there.

So just a suggestion, you might want to put some more time in on that "all men are horn dogs" and all women are loving saints" concept.

If you have to deep six all of your interests to have a woman, then it will blow up no matter what you do. I have yet to meet one that didn't want my undivided attention. I've seen too many "Hopeless romantic" listings in profiles. Once I see that, I'll more onto the next profile. There's no reason to mess with them, I have other interests. I wasn't wanting a woman as a hobby.

Nor would I change my opinion for any woman. That's expected, sometimes. I wasn't going to be some woman's "Pet".

I had to ask a couple women what their reasons
would be, if. They concurred on three basic answers.

1. Disappointed with the man's "pinky dinky".
2. The man is creepy weird.
3. The man has a "pinky dinky", and is creepy weird.

If he is creepy/weird I certainly wouldn't stick around to investigate the rest...LOL

I AGREE WITH YOU

There's a food that's well known to decrease a womans sexual desire by 90%;
wedding cake.