Topic: Want to find out if I am gay.
Zig's photo
Fri 06/14/19 05:29 PM
I've never been in an intimate sexual relationship with a man before. But I want to try. I'm willing to try anything if you'll be patient and gentle with me. I live in Nashville Tennessee and need to find out tonight. I'm disabled so I can't get out to gay bars. What do you suggest I do to solve this problem?

maybwecan's photo
Fri 06/14/19 07:23 PM
Welcome to Mingles

This is the internet and it is difficult to put a stopwatch requirements on the timeliness of resplies

You may be fortunate and someone on Mingle who is local to you and reads your message and can respond will send you a reply

You should consider using the Mingle search feature to identify potential matches in your area...you can then send messages

Other internet sites which cater to your specific interests may be worth some consideration and investigation...

Best of luck

ivegotthegirth's photo
Fri 06/14/19 08:42 PM
Man what a setup! It's all I can do to NOT say any rude **** to you, I really want too.....
But I'll be nice and say that in a city like Nashville there has to be other more direct routes and by that I mean media tailored to old homos wanting to find each other. I've spent a lot of time in Rock City and if you're serious I'm sure you can find someone to do just about anything sexual much faster than hoping this site works.
My good deed for the day.
Do not contact me >.< Period! OP

Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 06/14/19 09:42 PM
Really?
I don't give a damn.

mzrosie's photo
Fri 06/14/19 11:03 PM
I think some people are just playing us here. slaphead

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sat 06/15/19 12:31 AM
First of join a gay specific site which will increase your chances greatly

Zig's photo
Sat 06/15/19 12:57 AM
No I am not playing with anyone here, Mzrosie. I am serious about finding out if I am gay. I haven't had sex with a woman in 30 years. But tonight for the first time, I am having strong cravings to be with a man. But I'm afraid I'll find out that I don't like the experience with a man. So I am looking for someone to help me determine if I am gay before I get too far. Please don't think I'm willing to put myself out there just for kicks. To be honest with you, I have experienced the feeling of a replacement device in my body. It brings me pleasure but I'm not ready for someone to actually put themselves into me. I have fantasized about having a woman play the role of a man in me if you know what I mean. That would be more acceptable to me. But does this mean I am gay? I really want to talk to someone who is knowledgeable about these things in the gay community. Is this the forum for such a conversation? Let me know what you think.

no photo
Sat 06/15/19 04:13 AM

I think some people are just playing us here. slaphead


You are right say. Thanks

shakeel ahmad's photo
Sat 06/15/19 05:24 PM
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Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sat 06/15/19 11:42 PM
You needed to know tonight which was a few days ago, if you did not what happens next ?

Forget about it
Extend the time constraint

no photo
Tue 06/18/19 10:40 PM

I've never been in an intimate sexual relationship with a man before. But I want to try. I'm willing to try anything if you'll be patient and gentle with me. I live in Nashville Tennessee and need to find out tonight. I'm disabled so I can't get out to gay bars. What do you suggest I do to solve this problem?


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