OK, ppls sry about this but i need to get this off my chest.... what is it with ppl and f**king blocking... I started talking to this guy on here, and we moved over to aim and sh1t.. we werent even talking for that long and he asks why my profile it says "a few extra pounds" well i told him the truth that im not huge or anything but i can hold my own if i need to fight.... silence... i asked if it intimdated him... supposely he says no and that hes got to go... then blocks my ass. I ask for honesty ppl... thats it... all he could have said was " yeah not into big girls" and id be cool with it.... anyways sry ppl about this rant but y cant ppl be honest... sh1t

His loss. I apologize on behalf of the entire male race. I wish more guys were honest about sh1t. I'll tell a girl straight forward if I like her or not, I'm not gonna dodge around it or use a line because I know thats not what I would want.

i hear ya... i loooove it when guys expect us to be 100 lbs and a size 0. yet they are twice that.. what the hell? seriously some guys are just pricks.

well it his loss i have a few pds too if they dont like it they dont have to look

yeah i know his loss and everything... but honesty ppl thats it lol. thanks guys lol :)

than you coco...funny thing is they still do...and the same ones just keep looking and looking...sometimes faster that i can delete them...lol

Shallow people aren't known for being honest or having integrity or much of anything decent or humane. Everything they know about people and relationships is superficial and limited --

You're better off without someone like that in your life. Be glad you found out so soon. Some people can go months or even years before they discover how shallow another person really is.

your welcome

Hi everybody. Yes, if a guy looks at your profile and sees it says " heavyset" or "a few extra pounds", they know what your like. Sometimes ppl can just be stupid. That goes for guys and girls. It's their lose. Oh well, just move on from it. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, then the "HELL" with them.

This happens all too often to guys and gals. I don't understand it. Whenever I talk we talk for awhile and have a great conversation. We could exchange 25 e-mails a piece then all of a sudden she ignores my e-mails. I dunno why people do this but all I ask is why you're ignoring me.

Just throwing it out there. Maybe his response had nothing to do with your weight. You mentioned that you had said you could hold your own in a fight. I personaly think a bit of aggression is hot, but it could be that he isn't into a fighter. Just remember the common reason isn't always THE reason. ( between this and that tree question I'm starting to get a little philosophical sry )But yeah, like everyone else said

I agree with xander29....it's his loss. He should have had the courtesy to at least say 'no thanks'.
Don't worry about it, it happens to all of us (or at least to me).

Just to give you an example from my life....When I was younger, I was always heavyset, and used to listen to people try to put me down...They used to crap themselves when i would hit them with a one-liner comeback. Used to shut them up too...But anyway back to the subject..When I was 22 years old,I weighed close to 500lbs.Used to wear size 60 in the waist pants, and 5xxl shirts. The Doctor that I went to, told me that if i didn`t have an intestional bypass operation,he gave me 5 years to live. I was in good shape for a person of that size. I used to lift weights, go out and run. I was really active. Well anyway, I had the operation done. ( They DO NOT do this type of operation anymore.)The medical profession considers this operation too risky. I lost 325 lbs. in about 15 months. I know what a lot of people on here go through, and have gone through considering weight. I know that at one time, people judged me because of my weight. I could never do that to anyone. We are all people, we all have the same wants and needs.People that judge you because of a few extra pounds, aren`t worth your time of day.. They are missing out on one of the greatest people that could have possibly came into their life.Tell them to take a flier. It`s their loss. I hope that my testimony about this has been a help.