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Topic: Why is it so hard???
daddypoppa81's photo
Thu 05/30/19 06:48 PM
Why is it do hard to find that amazing sexy attractive woman? . I find myself pretty attractive and an awesome fun loving guy..

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Thu 05/30/19 11:03 PM
An improved profile will help

Rooster35's photo
Fri 05/31/19 12:35 AM

Why is it do hard to find that amazing sexy attractive woman? . I find myself pretty attractive and an awesome fun loving guy..

Because "amazing sexy attractive" women are already taken or too young for us and/or not interested in us regular Joes.
Make your bank account grow by a few million bucks and you'll see if you have trouble finding them... They won't have trouble finding you, I guarantee it.

JulieABush's photo
Fri 05/31/19 01:45 AM
It depends on what your definition of amazing, sexy and attractive are. If you define them on this post then maybe she’ll come to you.

Rooster35's photo
Fri 05/31/19 02:54 AM

It depends on what your definition of amazing, sexy and attractive are. If you define them on this post then maybe she’ll come to you.


He's not a dictionary, he doesn't have widely accepted definitions but Dictionary.com does:

amazing
/əˈmeɪzɪŋ/
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adjective
causing great surprise or wonder; astonishing.
"an amazing number of people registered"
synonyms: astonishing, astounding, surprising, bewildering, stunning, staggering, shocking, startling, stupefying, breathtaking, perplexing, confounding, dismaying, disconcerting, shattering; More
INFORMAL
very impressive; excellent.

sexy
/ˈsɛksi/
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adjective
1.
sexually attractive or exciting.
"sexy French underwear"
synonyms: sexually attractive, seductive, desirable, alluring, inviting, sensual, sultry, slinky, provocative, tempting, tantalizing; More
2.
INFORMAL
very exciting or appealing.
"business magazines might not seem like the sexiest career choice"
synonyms: exciting, stimulating, interesting, appealing, intriguing...

attractive
/əˈtraktɪv/
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adjective
pleasing or appealing to the senses.
"an attractive village"
(of a person) appealing to look at; sexually alluring.
"a stunningly attractive, charismatic man"
synonyms: good-looking, nice-looking, beautiful, pretty, as pretty as a picture, handsome, lovely, stunning, striking, arresting, gorgeous, prepossessing, winning, fetching, captivating, bewitching, beguiling, engaging, charming, charismatic, enchanting, appealing, delightful, irresistible; More
having qualities or features which arouse interest.
"the site is close to other prestige schemes which should make it attractive to developers"
synonyms: appealing, agreeable, pleasing, inviting, tempting, interesting, fascinating, irresistible
"they wanted to make military service a more attractive career...

What's so complicated about understanding what those words mean?


no photo
Fri 05/31/19 03:36 AM
Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 05/31/19 04:44 AM

Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

^^^^ This. Women are not interested in being seen, wanted, and treated as a piece of meat.
And especially the last part is true. The qualities of being money & material driven are masculine.
Men often seem to think we function the same way they do and project their qualities and wants onto us. Doesn't work.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 05/31/19 04:46 AM
You're not free and single. You're still married, and you have children living with you.
A woman who is free and single isn't particularly looking for that.

Rooster35's photo
Fri 05/31/19 05:10 AM

Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

Because inner beauty is supplanted by outter beauty. When we meet someone we don't first meet the inner beauty/ugliness but the person as she presents herself.
You may not like it but it's the truth of this world. We are judged by how we present ourselves and even employers are swayed by that.
We're inundated by images but the contents are non-existent... Men didn't make those rules, you women did. No need to cry about it now.

"First impressions are often the correct ones."
Yes... I'm sure I've heard that somewhere... Oh I remember now, I read it on a feminist website laugh

Rock's photo
Fri 05/31/19 05:33 AM

Why is it do hard to find that amazing sexy attractive woman? . I find myself pretty attractive and an awesome fun loving guy..


Seriously?

Have you not read your own profile?
You should. :thumbsup:


no photo
Fri 05/31/19 05:54 AM


Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

^^^^ This. Women are not interested in being seen, wanted, and treated as a piece of meat.
And especially the last part is true. The qualities of being money & material driven are masculine.
Men often seem to think we function the same way they do and project their qualities and wants onto us. Doesn't work.




It works both ways. Guys are visual. Women are mental.

I refer to it as a "Stubborn Off", and neither side wants to cater to the other. I wish I could say that I'm above it, but I'm not. I know me too well. I learned at an early age to depend on my own devices, and not depend on the opposite sex for company. In a left handed way, they actually did me a favor. Plenty of times, I've looked at an available woman, and decided that I'm better off not getting involved with her.

Kinda shoots the "Real woman" handle down in flames. If one uses that term on me, I know that she wants more than I want to give. I'll regret it later. That's what got me married. And got me divorced. Now, I'm way too cautious. I'm wary of traps, that would cost me in the end.

no photo
Fri 05/31/19 06:01 AM
Women dont make rules. Fashion and makeup are things that make us feel good about ourselves. Not what were made to do.
Nowadays were judged in everything titles, money and material goods. Women fought for basic rights and to be equal. Which were fighting to protect more nowadays then ever before. To me this country has forgotten about whats really important and not whats deep in the pockets of our politicians. This money hungry beliefs are making people lose there self respect and there dignity. Stop watching tv and start helping and looking out for our neighbors and homeless people. Cause our government dont give care.

Rooster35's photo
Fri 05/31/19 06:38 AM



Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

^^^^ This. Women are not interested in being seen, wanted, and treated as a piece of meat.
And especially the last part is true. The qualities of being money & material driven are masculine.
Men often seem to think we function the same way they do and project their qualities and wants onto us. Doesn't work.




It works both ways. Guys are visual. Women are mental.

I refer to it as a "Stubborn Off", and neither side wants to cater to the other. I wish I could say that I'm above it, but I'm not. I know me too well. I learned at an early age to depend on my own devices, and not depend on the opposite sex for company. In a left handed way, they actually did me a favor. Plenty of times, I've looked at an available woman, and decided that I'm better off not getting involved with her.

Kinda shoots the "Real woman" handle down in flames. If one uses that term on me, I know that she wants more than I want to give. I'll regret it later. That's what got me married. And got me divorced. Now, I'm way too cautious. I'm wary of traps, that would cost me in the end.

Older and wiser... Glad to read that :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 05/31/19 06:40 AM



Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

^^^^ This. Women are not interested in being seen, wanted, and treated as a piece of meat.
And especially the last part is true. The qualities of being money & material driven are masculine.
Men often seem to think we function the same way they do and project their qualities and wants onto us. Doesn't work.




It works both ways. Guys are visual. Women are mental.

I refer to it as a "Stubborn Off", and neither side wants to cater to the other. I wish I could say that I'm above it, but I'm not. I know me too well. I learned at an early age to depend on my own devices, and not depend on the opposite sex for company. In a left handed way, they actually did me a favor. Plenty of times, I've looked at an available woman, and decided that I'm better off not getting involved with her.

Kinda shoots the "Real woman" handle down in flames. If one uses that term on me, I know that she wants more than I want to give. I'll regret it later. That's what got me married. And got me divorced. Now, I'm way too cautious. I'm wary of traps, that would cost me in the end.

That's why you don't find the right one and/or come across women who may not be right for you: You are wary and cautious and expecting traps.
Meaning you're not open, not willing to give and receive. That's what it takes if you want to find love, and happiness in general for that matter.

The "stubborn" thing is BS. Nothing to do with stubborn, it's to do with lack of healing from a past relationship, becoming as you say: wary, cautious, afraid to get hurt and conned and so on.
It's also lack of personal growth. Men and women who have gone through personal growth and development, have worked on their issues and are more empowered in resp. their masculinity and femininity do understand the other gender or are at the very least curious to learn and find out.
When both parties are quite empowered cos of the work they've done, there is no struggle, no childish "stubborn" stuff. There's working together, side by side, hand in hand, supporting one another, no desire to change the other, and so on.

May sound far fetched to many, but it isn't all that far fetched at all. The most difficult part is choosing to work on yourself. Most don't, don't want to either. That's where the bottleneck is, NOT with the other gender.

Rooster35's photo
Fri 05/31/19 06:40 AM

Women dont make rules. Fashion and makeup are things that make us feel good about ourselves. Not what were made to do.
Nowadays were judged in everything titles, money and material goods. Women fought for basic rights and to be equal. Which were fighting to protect more nowadays then ever before. To me this country has forgotten about whats really important and not whats deep in the pockets of our politicians. This money hungry beliefs are making people lose there self respect and there dignity. Stop watching tv and start helping and looking out for our neighbors and homeless people. Cause our government dont give care.


You are right.
Unfortunately, this "modern" world doesn't agree with you.
Don't you know we're in 2019??? laugh

mzrosie's photo
Fri 05/31/19 01:32 PM

You're not free and single. You're still married, and you have children living with you.
A woman who is free and single isn't particularly looking for that.


I agree with, Crystal.

Married with children living with you.. Forget about "amazing sexy attractive woman".
Most women in the right mind, will ignore your profile. It would be like picking up a rock and hitting their head with it.

Cheers! happy drinker

oldkid46's photo
Fri 05/31/19 01:59 PM




Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

^^^^ This. Women are not interested in being seen, wanted, and treated as a piece of meat.
And especially the last part is true. The qualities of being money & material driven are masculine.
Men often seem to think we function the same way they do and project their qualities and wants onto us. Doesn't work.




It works both ways. Guys are visual. Women are mental.

I refer to it as a "Stubborn Off", and neither side wants to cater to the other. I wish I could say that I'm above it, but I'm not. I know me too well. I learned at an early age to depend on my own devices, and not depend on the opposite sex for company. In a left handed way, they actually did me a favor. Plenty of times, I've looked at an available woman, and decided that I'm better off not getting involved with her.

Kinda shoots the "Real woman" handle down in flames. If one uses that term on me, I know that she wants more than I want to give. I'll regret it later. That's what got me married. And got me divorced. Now, I'm way too cautious. I'm wary of traps, that would cost me in the end.

That's why you don't find the right one and/or come across women who may not be right for you: You are wary and cautious and expecting traps.
Meaning you're not open, not willing to give and receive. That's what it takes if you want to find love, and happiness in general for that matter.

The "stubborn" thing is BS. Nothing to do with stubborn, it's to do with lack of healing from a past relationship, becoming as you say: wary, cautious, afraid to get hurt and conned and so on.
It's also lack of personal growth. Men and women who have gone through personal growth and development, have worked on their issues and are more empowered in resp. their masculinity and femininity do understand the other gender or are at the very least curious to learn and find out.
When both parties are quite empowered cos of the work they've done, there is no struggle, no childish "stubborn" stuff. There's working together, side by side, hand in hand, supporting one another, no desire to change the other, and so on.

May sound far fetched to many, but it isn't all that far fetched at all. The most difficult part is choosing to work on yourself. Most don't, don't want to either. That's where the bottleneck is, NOT with the other gender.

I've worked on myself and made some significant changes along with knowing myself much better since I got divorced. I live alone, work a little, and enjoy my travels. A woman is welcome to join me in my lifestyle, she is NOT welcome to change it!

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Fri 05/31/19 02:05 PM

Well, he must’ve found one...! He’s Deactivated laugh

mzrosie's photo
Fri 05/31/19 02:26 PM
laugh or a friend of a friend told the wife he is hanging around dating sites rofl

Rooster35's photo
Fri 05/31/19 02:58 PM





Men seem to pick women on there looks instead of the heart. You all seem shallow and judgemental. There are good women out there that are not Barbie and would go out of there way to be loving and caring to a good man. Were not money or material driven like most men think.

^^^^ This. Women are not interested in being seen, wanted, and treated as a piece of meat.
And especially the last part is true. The qualities of being money & material driven are masculine.
Men often seem to think we function the same way they do and project their qualities and wants onto us. Doesn't work.




It works both ways. Guys are visual. Women are mental.

I refer to it as a "Stubborn Off", and neither side wants to cater to the other. I wish I could say that I'm above it, but I'm not. I know me too well. I learned at an early age to depend on my own devices, and not depend on the opposite sex for company. In a left handed way, they actually did me a favor. Plenty of times, I've looked at an available woman, and decided that I'm better off not getting involved with her.

Kinda shoots the "Real woman" handle down in flames. If one uses that term on me, I know that she wants more than I want to give. I'll regret it later. That's what got me married. And got me divorced. Now, I'm way too cautious. I'm wary of traps, that would cost me in the end.

That's why you don't find the right one and/or come across women who may not be right for you: You are wary and cautious and expecting traps.
Meaning you're not open, not willing to give and receive. That's what it takes if you want to find love, and happiness in general for that matter.

The "stubborn" thing is BS. Nothing to do with stubborn, it's to do with lack of healing from a past relationship, becoming as you say: wary, cautious, afraid to get hurt and conned and so on.
It's also lack of personal growth. Men and women who have gone through personal growth and development, have worked on their issues and are more empowered in resp. their masculinity and femininity do understand the other gender or are at the very least curious to learn and find out.
When both parties are quite empowered cos of the work they've done, there is no struggle, no childish "stubborn" stuff. There's working together, side by side, hand in hand, supporting one another, no desire to change the other, and so on.

May sound far fetched to many, but it isn't all that far fetched at all. The most difficult part is choosing to work on yourself. Most don't, don't want to either. That's where the bottleneck is, NOT with the other gender.

I've worked on myself and made some significant changes along with knowing myself much better since I got divorced. I live alone, work a little, and enjoy my travels. A woman is welcome to join me in my lifestyle, she is NOT welcome to change it!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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