is it worth to play their games back?
or just ignore?

im truly sick of girls just leading me on or wasting my time
im truly confused now

anyone else in this situation?
they say they are for real yet just want to make more excuses, unles they ready they would say so, but if their not
they shouldnt confuse someone

everybody plays games, get used to it. hell dating is one giant game. you win by making it to the end without being divorced.

you know what...i don't really think it's "leading someone on"
it's just that after you get to know them better you find you don't like them as much as you thought you did...

Tell it,

there are guys out there that play just as many games as girls. but to be honest that's probably something that we are just going to have to deal with. just be patient and you will find the right woman for you. there is one out there for you who won't play games with you ro your heart.

Yes, the games only start when one person does not tell the other that they have ejected rewound on you

just ignored and wait for that special one who's realy interrested in you. Bear in mind that when your'e chatting you can't look in somebody's eyes, what can tell a lot of things

If you can develope a mentallity that treats it for what it is, a game, then you will be better off. The truth is if it were meant to be then the games will taper off and eventually stop. Until then just try not to take things so seriously bro. Go with the flow and just try to enjoy the aspect of meeting new people. Most people have something about them that makes them fun and interesting, but there are only a small handful that are truly right for you. Its easy to get attached but you have to keep telling yourself to just "chill" and enjoy life by the moment.

There are harmless games and then serious head games, played by both sides. The flirty games are fun, but the serious ones just hurt. If the hurtful ones are being played, just move on, don't dwell. Not work your time.

Well said

Dude, girls play games with you because they want to flirt with you. If you DON'T play back you are just showing that you don't "get it" and therefore are not aware of how to have FUN in the world of sex and dating.
Many men think that women "lead them on" only because they don't know how to play these games with them. They approach the situation too logically, focusing on the end goal of getting into a relationship.
The "game-playing" stage is an entire relationship in it of itself and is basically the foreplay for a "real" relationship.
Speaking from a Freudian perspective, everything relates to sex. Another problem that relates to the question you brought up is the fact that most men don't spend enough time in FOREPLAY before having sex.
Enjoy the journey, man. "What the caterpillar calls the end, The world calls a butterfly" - Lao Tze Tao

Um I think it depends on how old/mature the girl is. You reach a point in your life where you know what you want, when you want it and how you want it. Prior to then, you flirt/play for the attention and end up confusing the hell out of some guy whos pea-nis thinks faster than his brain. Then you grow up and/or get screwed over a couple of times and you know what the signs are.

Henceforth (I dont even think thats a word, but I liked it)...henceforth, you know what qualities/traits to look for and you tell a guiy straight up...hey your hot we should "hang out" or You seem like you really have your life together..SLOWLY working into a real relationship. There is none of the...Oh I dont know what I want...oh I dont know if Im ready...screw that BS no one has time for that. Say what you mean and move on. Okay you might get your feelings hurt. What doesnt kill you makes you stronger, and no one ever died from a crushed ego.

ChEIf, you irritate me alot with some of the PUA stuff, BUT I have agreed with most of your posts today. In my 34 years of experience, if I put myself too out there, the guy is going to either take advantage, or think I wanna get married tomorrow, the same goes for guys, I like to want a man, I don't want him up my butt all the time, not in the begining at least. I was described as a lions den... some men think they can walk right in, they get mauled, some get in somehow, but make a false move, and get mauled... the one's I usually end up with, stand outside the door saying..."here kitty kitty." A woman of quality is going to but up her defences at first, if you keep it up, she will eventually give in. If you go away, it is because you were weak and no woman wants a weak man.

Just my 3 1/2 cents worth.

well i know wat i want and if dat girl isnt ready then yea she aint my time,i wanna be with a girl is just for real and no lies at all,i dont know why im attracted to such teases sometimes
they are truly eyecandy to me and i guess not wifey material
i want a real woman a real lover to be,
so i guess i just have to truly ignore

hey uhhhh
read wut i wrote
and read wut lily0923 wrote

It's 2 words...coming from the serial mis speller.. Hence Forth, but yes it is.

Yeah, I hear ya. But, I love it when she says, "You sunk my battleship!"

i read and heard it all before
but im just being a fool to give into these girls at times
im just not goin to bother and focus on tha girls who really pester me about this instead

All of life is a game, some just play with INTEGRITY.
How do you play?