Topic: feeling of disinterest
Jhe's photo
Thu 05/09/19 12:56 PM
It seems like i am always left out by people, or should i say i dont interest them, at all. What made me say that? I join dating sites but not really looking for a relationship but more on interacting with people & making friends. Who knows, there might be someone in the long run. But that's not it. Whenever i start a conversation with someone it tends to end quite easy. I don't know what puts them off that quickly. Or maybe i just don't know how to keep the conversation going, maybe? Or perhaps they might be too keen physically? They may think, at first glance, that i might be someone that is hard to jive with? Or they could just be very busy and they're not that active anymore? I don't want to stereotype but it just really made me question & wonder, for my sake.

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Thu 05/09/19 05:20 PM
Don't take things too personally. You have only been on this site for a day. Hang out for a while.

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Thu 05/09/19 05:27 PM
In most cases it’s truly not you. Don’t take things personally and don’t try too hard either. Just let things happen naturally

mzrosie's photo
Thu 05/09/19 06:13 PM
Hi Jhe
Perhaps these people are just not into you, even as friends.
Perhaps your topic of conversation do not interest them.
Perhaps it's them, not you.

so many reasons why people stop chatting with you. Maybe it's for the best.
It happens to everyone including me. Yes including me and I'm so adorable,
almost perfect HAHAHAHA

We just have to have a sense of humor about it. Laugh at yourself a little.
This is the internet, lots of lowsy people out there.. but there are also
some incredible people, like you and me. You are incredible, right? You
have to be sure.. I am sure I am. Keep your chin up and may the force be
with you.

That's my pep talk for today.
happy flowerforyou waving




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Thu 05/09/19 06:15 PM

Hi Jhe
Perhaps these people are just not into you, even as friends.
Perhaps your topic of conversation do not interest them.
Perhaps it's them, not you.

so many reasons why people stop chatting with you. Maybe it's for the best.
It happens to everyone including me. Yes including me and I'm so adorable,
almost perfect HAHAHAHA

We just have to have a sense of humor about it. Laugh at yourself a little.
This is the internet, lots of lowsy people out there.. but there are also
some incredible people, like you and me. You are incredible, right? You
have to be sure.. I am sure I am. Keep your chin up and may the force be
with you.

That's my pep talk for today.
happy flowerforyou waving





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Thu 05/09/19 06:15 PM
Nice pep talk

mzrosie's photo
Thu 05/09/19 06:35 PM

Nice pep talk


thanks Mrinvisiblehappy waving

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Fri 05/10/19 03:59 AM

Hi Jhe
Perhaps these people are just not into you, even as friends.
Perhaps your topic of conversation do not interest them.
Perhaps it's them, not you.

so many reasons why people stop chatting with you. Maybe it's for the best.
It happens to everyone including me. Yes including me and I'm so adorable,
almost perfect HAHAHAHA

We just have to have a sense of humor about it. Laugh at yourself a little.
This is the internet, lots of lowsy people out there.. but there are also
some incredible people, like you and me. You are incredible, right? You
have to be sure.. I am sure I am. Keep your chin up and may the force be
with you.

That's my pep talk for today.
happy flowerforyou waving

Sound advice:) and may I say that your adorableness is equaled by your obvious intelligence wit,charm and beatific smile.
LOL
To OP.. welcome :)
As Cat said. Don't take things personal.. hang out with us for a while:)





mzrosie's photo
Fri 05/10/19 03:27 PM
laugh thank you steve... I think happy flowerforyou

Rock's photo
Fri 05/10/19 08:04 PM
Sometimes, you gotta march to the beat of a
different drum.


And, sometimes, you just gotta mosh to a whole
different band.