i recentley lost my Gf of 6 years i was just wondering if there were any one alse who have been in this situation i was going to ask how long befor you decided to date again

that all depends on you
its not like there is a timer
most of me friends would say " when you are done greaving"
<shrug>
best wishes on your hunt

When I was 22 I lost my boyfriend, took a good 4 years
to even see 'men' again, same as after I divorced, so
I am guessing that might be the time it takes.

Sad to say there's not a time limit on it.

I lost my lady of 16 years to liver cancer. This Dec. will be 2 years ago. While I still think of her often, the grief is over with. Maybe one day, some day. For the now, it just helps to keep going and do the things necessary.

I know another gentleman somewhere else on the net, lost his wife as well. Only it's been 9 years for him and he sort of relives it day by day.

I guess the big difference is I don't complain so much about it. Some day you have to come to the decision that the world isn't going to stop and wait on you. You join it again or get left out.