Topic: Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles?
Masi's photo
Mon 08/02/21 07:18 PM
When viewing a profile male or female, what things would make you think twice when looking for a potential partner/relationship or friend?

Here are one or two of my put offs ~

1. They show the top half of their body, naked.
2. They are laying on a bed or couch in a seductive way
3. They are holding an alcoholic drink or cigarette in their hand or are surrounded by
alcohol.
4. Misspelt words.
5. They are clearly lying about their age.
6. They are 30 years your junior and their starting line is "Hey Babe"?

Do you have any pet peeves?

yes

Michael 's photo
Tue 08/03/21 06:31 AM
Some chick asked me to hangout, what’s his?

no photo
Tue 08/03/21 06:34 AM

Some chick asked me to hangout, what’s his?


"hang out" in person or online?

no photo
Sat 08/28/21 09:36 PM
Posting pictures 30 yrs younger
With cat or dog in your face
Just pictographs your animals
Women must be independent
( I will date you have sex with you don’t ask me buy u a coke ) is what your saying
Pet pee. Where did u work. How long.
No drama / You lived your life. I don’t want hear about it. Move to an island.

Richard 's photo
Sun 08/29/21 08:19 PM
Edited by Richard on Sun 08/29/21 08:41 PM

One thing I absolutely loathe is a profile that seeks people
outside their own age as it bespeaks so many issues.

Like a 50 year old wanting only teenagers, I am sure I set
some sort of land-speed record for getting away from such
profiles.

LOL, what about all these 20 somethings, looking for 45 to 60+ somethings??

to the question of the thread,
the only thing that really bugs me are completely blank profiles with just a name age and location.
the rest, well, we are all adults here. we can all ways say, we are not interested.

though, personally I might caution people about posting pics with their kids. on an adult dating site. strictly as a safety concern.

Richard 's photo
Tue 08/31/21 01:54 PM
Edited by Richard on Tue 08/31/21 02:06 PM


One thing I absolutely loathe is a profile that seeks people
outside their own age as it bespeaks so many issues.

Like a 50 year old wanting only teenagers, I am sure I set
some sort of land-speed record for getting away from such
profiles.

LOL, what about all these 20 somethings, looking for 45 to 60+ somethings??

to the question of the thread,
the only thing that really bugs me are completely blank profiles with just a name age and location.
the rest, well, we are all adults here. we can all ways say, we are not interested.

though, personally I might caution people about posting pics with their kids. on an adult dating site. strictly as a safety concern.

reading my account activity, of those who have viewed my profile and also liked me..
they are all at least 20-30 years younger than me, and/ or over 60 miles away..
so there must be a need for men seeking "teen agers" .. if so many younger women are looking for much older men, that live so far away from them. right??
even when those mens profiles state the women are under the age the men are looking for, and also out side the distance the men are willing to travel..

Dramatic Muffin's photo
Fri 09/03/21 04:33 AM
Edited by Dramatic Muffin on Fri 09/03/21 04:34 AM
I have not clicked on any profiles on here yet because I'm afraid they will see that I've clicked on them and then message me. laugh (Forum posters not included in this.)

But I'll say what turns me off in a message. Text speak, using the Mingle suggested starters as your message, any message starting with "Hi Dear", any message from a shirtless man.

Richard 's photo
Fri 09/03/21 09:46 AM
Edited by Richard on Fri 09/03/21 10:04 AM

I have not clicked on any profiles on here yet because I'm afraid they will see that I've clicked on them and then message me. laugh (Forum posters not included in this.)

But I'll say what turns me off in a message. Text speak, using the Mingle suggested starters as your message, any message starting with "Hi Dear", any message from a shirtless man.
LOL the good ol' high dear or high sweety, hi daddy(or momma).
I was getting a lot of them.

you can fix a lot of that with your personal messenger setting filters.
it limits / defines the people who can contact you.
so, you wont get as much of what I call spam mail / messages..

you can also do the same with your searches. so the people you view,
will be more likely be, the people you would not mind as much, if they contact you after words.
at least thats how I feel about it..
and theres also the unanswered/ delete and or block option. for those PM's, you really dont want to contact you.

Richard 's photo
Tue 09/07/21 12:14 PM
K found something that applies to the topic.:
whats up with women posting pic's with men. when their profile says looking for dating.
are they swingers, or do they just not know how to crop them out?
either way. the pictures send the message they are all ready dating some one.

Lulu's photo
Sun 09/12/21 09:16 PM
The "Nothing written" Is definitely a waste of time. :)

I don't look twice to someone with nothing written it's a red flag

Lulu's photo
Sun 09/12/21 09:17 PM
K found something that applies to the topic.:
whats up with women posting pic's with men. when their profile says looking for dating.
are they swingers, or do they just not know how to crop them out?
either way. the pictures send the message they are all ready dating some one.

:thinking:it's confusing

Red's photo
Thu 09/16/21 06:27 AM
Well some of the pictures are of the items they own. Cars Bikes boats... who is looking to date that stuff?. Pictures of naked men is not what i look for. Profiles not filled out. What is with the sunglasses in the car pic??? or bathroom???v lol Old pics with their X but kinda cut out or blacked out. recent pics would be nice. it does not take much to take a pic and add it to your profile. and do not say working on your profile. that just tells me you are not true to your word. Keep checking and it is not finished. Your profile tells me what kind of person you are. some people do read what others have to say. that also is a glimps of what the person personality. Everything on thie profile has a meaning. If you are serious to find your next love, your happy ever after..... fill out the dang gambit profile.......

Damien's photo
Thu 09/16/21 08:51 AM
Not enough energy or interaction being reciprocated.

Richard 's photo
Fri 09/17/21 12:51 PM

Well some of the pictures are of the items they own. Cars Bikes boats... who is looking to date that stuff?. Pictures of naked men is not what i look for. Profiles not filled out. What is with the sunglasses in the car pic??? or bathroom???v lol Old pics with their X but kinda cut out or blacked out. recent pics would be nice. it does not take much to take a pic and add it to your profile. and do not say working on your profile. that just tells me you are not true to your word. Keep checking and it is not finished. Your profile tells me what kind of person you are. some people do read what others have to say. that also is a glimps of what the person personality. Everything on thie profile has a meaning. If you are serious to find your next love, your happy ever after..... fill out the dang gambit profile.......

LOL, I'm sure, there were plenty of women that would rather spend time on a boat on the water. then the guy driving it. ;-)

no photo
Sat 09/18/21 11:25 AM
I didn't realise that I had so many pet peeves until I logged onto this app.
:sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

mikaxel80's photo
Sat 09/18/21 11:53 AM
Non truthful ones

no photo
Sun 09/19/21 12:12 PM
i hardly look at profiles. so nothing.

Deviant Knight 's photo
Sat 11/27/21 11:47 PM
Why are al these profiles the same? Every woman says the same stupid thing.

Deviant Knight 's photo
Sat 11/27/21 11:51 PM
Amd why does everyone ask for WhatsApp and hangouts? What’s up with that? Playing musical chairs with communication apps is pathetic. Play stupid games, get stupid prizes

SingleMingle's photo
Thu 12/16/21 02:46 AM

When viewing a profile male or female, what things would make you think twice when looking for a potential partner/relationship or friend?

Here are one or two of my put offs ~

1. They show the top half of their body, naked.
2. They are laying on a bed or couch in a seductive way
3. They are holding an alcoholic drink or cigarette in their hand or are surrounded by
alcohol.
4. Misspelt words.
5. They are clearly lying about their age.
6. They are 30 years your junior and their starting line is "Hey Babe"?

Do you have any pet peeves?

What does “your junior” mean? I never have understood that. Thanks! :innocent: