How do you relate wife and your life?

I am not related to your wife.

They rhyme?

Wives usually want to control at least part of your life. The more you give them, the more they want!

Unless you agree to be equal partners in a marriage. It works best that way. Treat each other with respect.

True but hard to implement and definition of what is equal partners varies.

Not hard to implement for 2 reasonable people. If by equal you mean financially, rarely do both spouses make the same income. That should be understood going into a marriage.

Not necessarily equal income but certainly equal effort. Equal can also apply to many other things such as do we compromise on the weekend or each do their own thing, or alternate who plans the shared weekend? Personally, I would expect a balance of all 3.

There is a saying "Happy wife, Happy life" so here goes...
- tell your wife you love her everyday
- show your wife you love her as often as you could
- if she likes flowers, give her flowers not only on Valentine's day and your anniversary day, but also any day just because you love her
- watch the kids when she goes shopping for shoes
- if she is not a good cook, get your mother to cook for you or learn to cook yourself
- etc etc etc
and most importantly, never ever cheat on your wife... that is morally wrong. If she finds out, that will make her sad, or sad and angry, or very angry that she might tell her relatives to beat you up and you don't want that now, do you?

JMO

And what should she do to ensure a happy husband???

My mission is that work hard to make money and her mission is that do housework and take care of our kid and prepare supper, breakfast. When we all are free, go out for a journey with our kid.

oldkid, the question was about how to relate wife and life. I gave my opinion.
The word "husband" was not mentioned so neither did I.

Have a wonderful day

Better dead, than wed.

Don't really get the problem: when you love someone you want to be with them and share your life with them. Then things go by themselves, you both make space in your life for the other person, because you want to.
For some this get more difficult as they age and have gone through one or more relationships and become bitter and/or stuck in their ways.
Fact remains that when you really love someone you just go for it.

Been there, done that, got the scars from reality. You assume all are adult and mentally healthy - not reality!!!!

My life is much better, since my ex wife is gone

The wrong life, will screw up a good wife.

The wrong wife, will screw up a good life.


Kinda simple.

Exactly! Well said rosie

Now that is funny.....