Okay, I know this is supposed to be a "dating" site, but what if you saw someone's profile and they're of the same gender as you and you think it's the best piece of writing ever? Is it okay to write them and tell them that? Or will they think you're weird and you must be into girls? Yeah, I'm paranoid, sue me....

I think it would be perfectly fine, lot of people here for more than just dating

Okay thanks. :)

Absolutely tell them! I bet it will make their whole day... and will most likely be the start of a wonderful friendship

Never miss the chance to spread Happy

There is a man on this site who used to work for a publishing house, and he has written to me a couple of times to compliment me on things I've written here. I genuinely appreciate his taking the time to write, and I never saw any ulterior motives.

It is true that probably 99% of the e-mails I get are from women, but there are a few guys here I have exchanged a fair amount of correspondence with.

I mean, if you like the writing, I don't see any harm in telling her so. If she takes it the wrong way, that's her error, not yours. I don't think every compliment must necessarily carry a sexual overtone....

I'm not here for dating, but for the forums and perhaps having a nice chat with somebody regardless gender

That's pretty cool.

I understand where your coming from...I was nervous at first about that too...but now I understand that this site also has started many friendships...between both genders on here...so go for it dear...