i write this because at 48 reality feels like the end.its been a in long time.not talking about sex.talki g about that feeling that seems to never come.

Good question.

I think some people find love more than once, but not everyone. The older you get, the harder it is to find someone compatible because you are set in your ways and demand more now. You are also a little wiser about relationships (hopefully) and try to choose more carefully.

I am 48, but I have less demands now. I was much more fussy when I was young.

Beggars can't be choosers.. in my case anyway. Done looking.. know it ain't happening. Now to get along alone and being ok with it is a new challenge.

Still, decent guys like us deserve to be happy. JS

Yeah, just have to do it alone.. js.. lol

Statements like that scream self-pity. And they hold blame, holding others responsible for not you being happy, for not finding and having romantic love.
No one is responsible for that but you yourself. That's not just you, goes for everyone.
People who radiate positivity attract love, joy, happiness. Why? Because they feel that way on the inside.
Finding love, happiness and joy in life is an inside job. So people who say this kind of stuff should either work on themselves and their issues or stop complaining. And yes, your statement is complaining.
If you feel you deserve to be happy then why can't you give that to yourself?

Is it possible to feel that way again? Hell yes!
And often far deeper and intense than when younger, because you've been around the block a few times and you're usually (hopefully!) wiser and less ego-driven.

Crystal is right! Sometimes you just gotta get up off your azz, start thinking positively and take a chance. You won’t find anyone on your couch. Take a chance meeting someone you may not have considered previously or go out and keep your mind and eyes open. It can happen.

I Know people that found love more than once, including myself.
I t doesn't always have to do with getting older. There are Many young people who hasn't found love the first time yet.

I f a person keeps looking and wants to find love, they will. You have to meet the right person, who wants love as well.

Love May not .be on the Internet.

It is absolutely possible.