I'm starting to see why some of you are single. haha

Bullcrap. Women (not "girls") are just as visually stimulated. The difference is, women have been historically conditioned to not admit it.

I agree. We're called shallow if we say that.

Who cares what others think or say. So long as you know your self then what "they" say is irrelevent.

Why does this question get asked over and over? Harping on the subject is not going to change a damn thing.

uhhhhhhhhhh because they cant get a date and they blame it on looks or men.........

A lot of what goes on in the forums is nothing more than perpetuating age old myths and and revealing truths.
Some people don't like to admit they're human!

If I don't like the looks of ya, I ain't datin' ya!

Men...Women..same difference.

Anyone who has read my profile knows that I've got a big load of crap on it.. that might indicate I'm either not firmly attached to any known reality or I am beyond help of ever having a serious moment in my life...

Yet still most days I get some women saying "After reading your profile I think we have so much in common... I like to go for walks on beaches and blah, blah, blah... " They don't read either! Couldn't care less, what is written.

The fact is.. For every nut..there is at least one bolt out there. Usually many.

Personally.. I would rather not be with someone who does not find me attractive, any more then I'd want to be with someone I don't find attractive. That is a part of the chemistry for this man.. but not all of it.

The really cool thing about the word 'Attractive'? It is subjective. Defined in as many ways as there are people on this earth. Don't let the ones that have tastes different then what you are...rent too much space in your head. If they do? Well.. that tends to be universally.. unattractive. Or worse.. attractive to someone that you really do not want in your life.

OK..OK..DAMMIT I GO 97% BY "LOOK"s!!!!

I "LOOK" at the way she treats me and others
I "LOOK" at the way she smiles
I "LOOK" at the way she keeps herself
I "LOOK" at her character
I "LOOK" at the way she cares for herself and others
AND I "LOOK" AND I "LOOK" AND I "LOOK" SOME MORE!!

I ADMIT IT..NOW YA HAPPY!!???

THE OTHER 3% IS HOW GOOD OF A KISSER SHE IS!

looks aren't everything u can be a cute lying sob

good luck finding a man... or even a female that doesn't go by looks but we all have our own opinion on what attractive is!

attractiveness! your photo should be a good one nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't take any pride in themself (Like have good hygien)

Who has a bad photo?

Not your photo, but somepeples looks like they just rolled out of bed or don't care!

i go by personality most of tha time
but i also love sex

I think people should love someone in spite of what they look like, not for it.

Whoops, double post, sorry!

I have never been with soemone for their looks... I am attracted to how they treat me, themselves & others... I do not care if you look like Brad Pitt... If your an a**hole... See ya later... Buh bye! Know what I mean?

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i care about breast size and. how much money she make