Topic: Strange?
peterbonbon's photo
Thu 11/08/18 04:49 AM
Don’t you think it’s strange that there are so many profiles up there of women with nothing to say about them self’s, nothing like any woman I ever met in my lifetime. Discuss.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 11/08/18 04:51 AM
Plenty of men's profiles are blank, too.

peterbonbon's photo
Thu 11/08/18 04:53 AM
I wouldn’t know I only look at the girls.

no photo
Thu 11/08/18 05:02 AM

Discuss.



Draw your own conclusions. You don't like it then you move on to the next profile. There's nothing else to say other than it doesn't take a rocket surgeon to figure out what's going on in many cases.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 11/08/18 05:22 AM

I wouldn’t know I only look at the girls.


I used to be a moderator here. So I had to look at profiles regardless of gender.

JustBeHonest's photo
Thu 11/08/18 06:26 AM


I wouldn’t know I only look at the girls.


I used to be a moderator here. So I had to look at profiles regardless of gender.


rofl

surprised

peterbonbon's photo
Thu 11/08/18 07:52 AM
Ok I understand

Rock's photo
Thu 11/08/18 12:13 PM
slaphead

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 11/08/18 01:33 PM
It is up to each member to post what they wish within their profiles this site does not require you to fill out your profile..

All members have the choice to by-pass Profiles that do not interest them..

If you want to get to know someone then ask it is a way to start e-mails to those you may be interested in..

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 11/08/18 01:42 PM

Plenty of men's profiles are blank, too.


You said it right !!

no photo
Thu 11/08/18 04:15 PM
Edited by lilwmn on Thu 11/08/18 04:26 PM
I don't have anything in my profile but I'm not looking for a date/mate/partner. I'm just here for the forums, so I didn't feel the need to add anything to my profile.

I will say in the past when I had a profile filled out, I found a majority of the guys that did contact me never even read it.

no photo
Thu 11/08/18 06:38 PM
Don’t you think it’s strange that there are so many profiles up there of women with nothing to say about them self’s, nothing like any woman I ever met in my lifetime. Discuss.

Not much to discuss.
This has been addressed many times.
- a lot of people search "free online dating," click one of the links (which may bring them here), then they go through the profile creation process as fast as possible in order to get to the pictures so they can browse the sweaters, err, people and see if there are any "good" ones, hot ones, people online they can immediately talk to right now.
Then they either don't really find anyone so leave and don't come back, just hitting other sites, or they start talking to someone and find some people and figure out a filled out profile isn't really necessary for them.

- some people change their profile. They don't want to commit to being any particular type of person so they're always changing it. Their profile never reads how they want it to. So they sit online for hours trying to think of something clever and smart and attractive and flirty and fun or serious to write, but it all sounds like crap, then they have to go to bed and they end up not having typed anything.

- Some people use the app. They don't want to really type much if anything at all into a profile. At most they want to simply pick options from drop down boxes then move on and focus on texting, or "nudges" or "meet me's" or "winks" or whatever the passive aggressive phone game is.

- Some people are private. When they sign in they put their picture up and fill out their profile. When they sign off they take it all down.

- Some people get disgusted with the scammers and players and whatnot so they leave. They can't figure out how to deactivate or delete their profile, or they kinda secretly think they'll be back, so they just delete all information from their profile and don't sign on again, but you're stuck seeing a blank profile.

- Some people are cautious. They signed on and are browsing through different profiles, seeing who is on here, seeing how people respond and interact, they're trying to "figure things out" before they commit to filling out a profile.

- Some people are scammers. They had a full profile of Natasha the Ukrainian supermodel virgin that lived in Los Angeles, New York, but that became too well known, or too many people were asking them about local culture, so they're trying to leave as much as possible blank so they can make it up as they go and you have no real means of determining the veracity of their claims or "seriousness" except through maybe broken english and asking you for money.



Personally, I think it's strange there aren't more empty profiles.
Profiles are pretty much useless and meaningless except as means of miscommunication and lies.
For those that are actually looking for people and have them filled out, the vast majority are filled with nothing but cliches, lip service to ideals, lies, and pointless/meaningless drivel.

Personally, my belief is the only thing that matters is that the location is honest, the pictures are honest, and they're willing to meet sooner rather than later for a half hour or hour date (which proves if the other two things are true), locally, in a safe public place.
IMO everything else is pretty much BS for insecure and controlling people that enjoy a false sense of security and compatibility because they aren't here looking to date, just emotionally masturbate.

no photo
Fri 11/09/18 03:50 AM

Don’t you think it’s strange that there are so many profiles up there of women with nothing to say about them self’s, nothing like any woman I ever met in my lifetime. Discuss.


Yes. Very odd. Also dont trust people with no pics.