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Topic: It really can & does happen!
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Wed 11/07/18 01:30 PM



Okay, we've had a few wonderful love stories of late from members, I'm going to share another one.
No, not about me, I am still sodding around with putting my dating shoes on, or not, hihi.

My daughter... when it comes to love it has always been difficult. Abusive and/or unavailable boyfriends and partners. The one she left behind was abusive as well, verbally, physically, emotionally.
When she came back to Holland the pattern of attracting unavailable men kept repeating, including with the last guy. But... then something happened that was deeply emotional and it brought them together. It helped him to open his eyes and his heart.
They're now very happy, and she's moving in with him this week. :heart: smitten

I am SO happy for my girl as for the first time EVER she now has a man who is good to her, cares about her, loves her and has committed to her. :heart:

And for the non-believers who say that you can't find love via an online site; they met on Tinder. :heart:
I keep hearing more and more about couples that met on Tinder btw.

All that happened in a short time-span at that, some 4 months.
Go figure how important it is to have strong bonding moments, EXACTLY what Matthew Hussey and other dating coaches are always talking about.
It does NOT have to take forever to get from A to Z. If the click is right, the bonding is there, it can go real fast.
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It's rare but does happen that people change. Hopefully this is one of those rare cases where he really has changed. Seems things are moving fast, but that's not always a bad thing. I hope what they have is real and what they both deserve.

It can indeed happen.
And she has the advantage that she has mommy who knows a helluva lot of ins & outs when it comes to relationships & dating, how to go about it and so on. I have given her advice on a few occasions :angel: (she asked me) She's a smart woman and picked up on it real fast, haha.



It's no surprise that she's smart, I bet she gets that from her ma'ma. ;)

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Wed 11/07/18 01:31 PM
it sure is crystal now all we gotta do is figure out how to share it aroundlaugh

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