Believe it or not, most men who do cheat are satisfied with their sex life at home. It's usually another factor within themselves, or the relationship that predisposes them to cheat. Some cheat if their sex life is not great, but most cheat for other reasons. Same thing for women. Women are definitely more likely to cheat for emotional reasons. In either case, there is a disconnect somewhere.

..wow....

maybe he want more that u can offer, or hes not happy and wants out. there are a million reasons. All i can say hon is YOU DESERVE BETTER, find someone who will treat you like a person, and not just someone to come home too.

good luck

Leave him lookin like a burger with extra ketchup.

I'm a man and it's not in my nature to cheat. I believe in fiedelity loyalty. When i do find that special lady I will be loyal and true to her. Because hopefully that special someone who I will find will one day be my wife and the only thing that will seaparate us will be death. My loyalty to her will be for life.

Hell yeah!

wow..you say that a lot, i noticed

There are two reasons PEOPLE cheat. The first is that some people just can not be with one other person its not who they are. Usually these are the same people who when they are young have no serious relationships, and have no other reason to setle down then the fact that they can't get as much of "it" as they used to be able to.

The other reason that people cheat is that they feel that they are not appreciated. And that is sexually, emotionally, etc etc in a relationship, this is not a failing of an individual in the relationship, this is a failing of both people in that relationship.

What really ticks me off is that there is a very large double standard for cheaters. When men cheat it is because they are dogs who are only want as much sex as they can get. but when women cheat, while wrong, its because they aren't getting something in a relationship. This is one double standard that I can't stand. Others I put up with becasued they can be dispelled with any thought, but this one is pervasive

because there ego is TO DANG HIGH AND THEY THINK THEY MACHO WHICH IS ZILTCH!!!!!!!!!!

A number of reasons IMHO... Low self esteem, control issues, cowardess, a propensity for self sabotage, narcissism... to name just a few.

women can't keep a secret ?

the psychology behind cheaters and their actions are about self gratification and narcissism and self sabotage.

the answers are long and hard to find.

most of it relates to unhappiness and the lack of moral judgement.

cheating is a quick fix and high related to some thing they can not face in their lives.

...And just because some men are just dog and some women are just dogs

Men cheat so do woman society is soooo *ucked up now true love is hard to find and it seems now like if your taken then they want you even more

I bet she cheats at volleyball!!!

same reason women do.

What a load of bull****!!!!!

Aside from the drunk indescretions that a few have mentioned, there is the longing for something lost. I think everyone has had a relationship that gets stale. They probably all get that way after a while, but when the relationship doesn't rebound there is a longing for what it use to be like. This longing opens up the door of vulnerability to cheat. It is at this point where somene other than the spouse/gf/bf showing interest sparks that old feeling again. If the spouse/gf/bf is weak in conviction, they will falter.

WHY DO WOMEN CHEAT, WHEN THEY HAVE A GOOD THING AT HOME?

i found out after i broke up that she said that she was never married and had no kids. and she was maried to me at the time . but now she is getting maried in the fall that will be number 3 for her 1 for me . try that