to atleast start with a meaningful conversation. so many fake dudes

yes there's a lot of lesbian and bisexual in here hahaha

so how to connect with the relevant leads?

Have you tried looking behind the couch?

if they were that easy to find we'd all have them

On here? Try the search options. If there are any I doubt they'd be in the forums and/or open about it in the forums.
Too many 'god fearing' people here meaning judgemental and not accepting of it.
I believe in all the years I've been on here, which is now 5 years, I've come across 1 lesbian. Just 1. She was from Europe if memory serves. Meaning not 'god fearing' lol. We don't have that chit over here so much anymore.

I'm quite sure there are a number that you can find with the search option. Else, try another dating site, one esp for lesbian/bi-sexuals might be better.

Thanks Crystal

Says who

Im a decent gurl, i cnt stand fakes n all ppl want is sex n i wannt a conversation first