Topic: New to Mingle
Red's photo
Wed 09/19/18 04:35 PM
Hi. I'm new to online "dating." I may be going about this all wrong because I'm not looking to get married or a one night stand. I want a guy to go to movies with, shoot pool with, go to concerts with, try out new restaurants with and to just generally pal around with. I like intellectual conversation but I also like to be silly and have fun. I can pay my own way and I need someone who can pay their own way. So is this the wrong format for me to be looki for that kind of a friendship?

no photo
Wed 09/19/18 05:24 PM
Welcome to Mingle, Red. It looks like you want to meet people who live near you so you can do things together. Set your filter to meet people that live closer to you. Good luck.

Red's photo
Wed 09/19/18 05:37 PM
There is not much to do in Harrisburg and not any men here. I am within close to commuting distance to Philadelphia, Baltimore, DC, NYC and Atlantic City where there is a lot to do on weekends and holidays. I'm open to driving a couple of hours unless anyone in Harrisburg can show me that there is actually anything to do here.

Poetrywriter's photo
Wed 09/19/18 05:54 PM
Edited by Poetrywriter on Wed 09/19/18 05:55 PM
Welcome to Mingle2 Red from another Pennsylvaniaite. flowerforyou I am shocked that there is nothing to do in Harrisburg and no men. It is a big city. Not like Philly or Baltimore but it is large compared to where I am outside Williamsport.

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Wed 09/19/18 06:09 PM
Yeah, I thought Harrisburg, PA is kind of big. Look at my town, about 3,200.

Poetrywriter's photo
Wed 09/19/18 06:13 PM

Yeah, I thought Harrisburg, PA is kind of big. Look at my town, about 3,200.


I agree cat. Harrisburg is bigger than the biggest city around ,Williamsport, where I am and I consider Williamsport large with plenty of things to do.

NotPay4Play's photo
Wed 09/19/18 07:27 PM
Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.