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So true!!!
Its on both sides.....a lot of glazing happens online and in real life too

Sweetheart, that's still lying! And how do you know it's what they want to hear... have you asked each one individually?

same reasons as most

1. its the easiest way to get what they want
2. its the easiest way to avoid what they dont want

Part of the problem is that many people have a hard time separating the physical pleasure of sex from the emotional connectivity of a relationship. Just because 2 people enjoy a sexual experience that doesn't mean there is the emotional connection of a relationship or ever will be. Good sex with a decent person will probably result in a relationship; bad sex or bad behavior will not.

Unfortunately, most relationships won't survive without the sex so the outcome after there has been a sexual experience will determine if the relationship is real. If your belief in the relationship was the basis for your sexual participation, you are going to get emotionally hurt on a regular basis.

Both genders lie. It is all about gaining an advantage and hide the truth ... own flaws, for example.

True!!!!
Someone once told me that!!!

In my experience and observation, there's a number of reasons, and they aren't all simple.

One of the most subtle one, is that lots of people are persuaded when they are very young children, that lying is a normal, and actually encouraged element of getting along in the world.

When I was a kid, I learned (without really understanding it) that I should lie to "make relatives who give unwanted gifts" feel good. That I should hide the fact that my teacher in school freaks me out, because of that weird mole on her upper lip.

Later, as a young teen trying to find a job, I was encouraged to "maximize the positives" on my resume. In fact, whenever I was trying to accomplish anything, I was encouraged by EVERYONE else, to do that.

To me as a young person, it was a kind of lying to dress up as though I had more money than I did, whenever I was trying to win someone's favor.

What I'm getting at isn't that lying to win affection (or sexual favors or money, etc) is excusable, just that it's often less of a dramatic shift away from honesty, than it is an incremental step.

In my observation, the people who are the best at lying for romance, are the ones who very early on, most cheerfully adapted to all the OTHER lies of normal life.

Because there's no real downside to it anymore.
Especially with online dating.
As people can avoid developing "reputations."


Can you tell me why women can rely on something that can be lied about in order to win her heart? Why is she reliant upon what he tells her in order to gain her heart, rather than relying upon her own powers of observation and thought and taking responsibility for giving her heart?

Probably for the same reasons women wear makeup.

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Some of us dont wear makeup!!
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Some guys just tell a woman what they want to here, till the guy gets what he wants.

hello

Some flat out equate sex with love. Some substitute it for love. Some are addicted to sex and will do whatever it takes to get it. This can apply to any gender ("Identified as" or real.)

I'm not smart enough to lie, my stories are legit

well not all men lie. women lie too , I'm now seperate after taking my cheating wife back. she lost her job and her house an I still took her back . only to have her do the same ****. I believe that a women should be treated like a queen and she should treat her man like king

True. Not all men lie. Not all women do either.

Then there is degrees of lies... like telling your gal she looks good in that dress when you don't think so. The lie could be based on your perception of the dress on her, or it could honestly not look good on her but you want to survive the night with her in peace. All you know is to say it doesn't, is enough for this particular gal to have a good night turn into a nightmare. Then there is all the way to telling her you love her, when you don't, just to get between the sheets with her. Should you lie though? It's been debated for ages about "white lies" (i.e. the dress.) The one to get someone into bed though... IMHO, should NEVER EVER even be on the table, let alone be considered.

Personally, I try to avoid telling lies.

tl;dr
Not everyone lies. Many practice white lies for sake of peace. Then some do so to manipulate. Finally, some do it compulsively. It's also gender agnostic.

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Go back to you language tutor & get yo $$$$ back!!!

I think most them do it to try and get in your pants but i dont see how anyone could lie to you and mess up some thing great