Topic: " Cyber Love....Is It Real?" | |
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Yes!
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Soulfie......
You make a great point |
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Stuball63
Lol why you say no |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Thu 09/06/18 09:45 AM
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Nope..not real at all. neither is cyber sex . Love takes contact. Love take building a real relationship Love takes interaction over a period of time. You need to see the person at their best. And their worst . Their quirks. Strengths, and their shortcomings You have to love them at 5pm..and 5am Can't to that on the web Interesting. I guess all those people that corresponded during WW2, and got married once he was out of the service (and many stayed married for decades)...that was all made up? There was a huge letter writing campaign back then...women sent soldiers they didn't know letters....because it kept up morale. |
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First, they way I figure it, based on Tinder Stats (the one that started the swipe business, or at leas popularized it) us guys only have about a 20% chance of finding someone there vs about 80% of meeting someone in the flesh. The gals have got their pick of us guys online to the point we'd have to make it a part-time job to 'scatter-shot" in hopes of even getting to talk to someone for a few messages at least, let alone having a one out of a hundred or so first replies. Ok gee....another guy thinking we women get bombarded with messages, and that we can have our pick. Bull. Once you take the scammers out of the equation, we don't get any more replies that you guys do. |
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RockGnome,
oh wow help me understand it... |
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RockGnome,
oh wow help me understand it... |
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ToTage,
I think you right Asia is Americas biggest technology supplier... |
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Eric22T,
I love your comments keep posting! |
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First, they way I figure it, based on Tinder Stats (the one that started the swipe business, or at leas popularized it) us guys only have about a 20% chance of finding someone there vs about 80% of meeting someone in the flesh. The gals have got their pick of us guys online to the point we'd have to make it a part-time job to 'scatter-shot" in hopes of even getting to talk to someone for a few messages at least, let alone having a one out of a hundred or so first replies. Ok gee....another guy thinking we women get bombarded with messages, and that we can have our pick. Bull. Once you take the scammers out of the equation, we don't get any more replies that you guys do. Amen and if we do it's from Buffalo Bill wannabes |
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QuintupleB,
You very knowledgably about music ......very good |
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I_Love_Bluegrass
Welcome I love your comments keep posting.! |
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I'm old fashioned, and know this exists
![]() Radar Love ~~~Golden Earring I've been drivin' all night, my hand's wet on the wheel There's a voice in my head that drives my heel It's my baby callin', says I need you here And it's a half past four and I'm shiftin' gear When she is lonely and the longing gets too much She sends a cable comin' in from above Don't need no phone at all We've got a thing that's called radar love We've got a wave in the air, radar love The radio is playing some forgotten song Brenda Lee's comin' on strong The road has got me hypnotized And I'm speedin' into a new sunrise When I get lonely and I'm sure I've had enough She sends her comfort comin' in from above We don't need no letter at all We've got a thing that's called radar love We've got a light in the sky, radar love No more speed, I'm almost there Gotta keep cool now, gotta take care Last car to pass, here I go And the line of cars drove down real slow And the radio played that forgotten song Brenda Lee's comin' on strong And the newsman sang his same song Oh one more radar lover gone When I get lonely and I'm sure I've had enough She sends her comfort comin' in from above We don't need no letter at all We've got a thing that's called radar love We've got a light in the sky We've got a thing that's called radar love We've got a thing that's called radar love Songwriters: Barry Hay / George Kooymans Radar Love lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC |
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Edited by
QuintupleB
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Thu 09/06/18 03:15 PM
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First, they way I figure it, based on Tinder Stats (the one that started the swipe business, or at leas popularized it) us guys only have about a 20% chance of finding someone there vs about 80% of meeting someone in the flesh. The gals have got their pick of us guys online to the point we'd have to make it a part-time job to 'scatter-shot" in hopes of even getting to talk to someone for a few messages at least, let alone having a one out of a hundred or so first replies. Ok gee....another guy thinking we women get bombarded with messages, and that we can have our pick. Bull. Once you take the scammers out of the equation, we don't get any more replies that you guys do. Amen and if we do it's from Buffalo Bill wannabes Thanks for correcting me. The general consensus on the net from so called experts (and those associated with specific sites) tend to say this... alot. Without hearing the voice of someone else, it's not difficult to assume that's the way it is. |
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RockGnome, oh wow help me understand it... Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help. Love with someone you've never met, and do not know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy. Wishful thinking. It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing. |
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RockGnome, oh wow help me understand it... Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help. Love with someone you've never met, and do not know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy. Wishful thinking. It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing. true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling |
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RockGnome, oh wow help me understand it... Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help. Love with someone you've never met, and do not know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy. Wishful thinking. It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing. true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling I agree with RockGnome and eric. Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands.. then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy. my two cents. ![]() ![]() |
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RockGnome, oh wow help me understand it... Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help. Love with someone you've never met, and do not know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy. Wishful thinking. It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing. true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling I agree with RockGnome and eric. Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands.. then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy. my two cents. ![]() ![]() Having had experience with entering "La La land" and the fantasy world of cyber love... I totally agree with RockGnome, Eric, and rosie. That wishful thinking can become more being in love with the idea of happily ever after with that person. It creates an illusion and make believe world in your mind. Until you actually meet, it's best to keep a huge sign on the wall that says, "It's not real until you can touch it, see it, taste it, and/or smell it"... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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RockGnome, oh wow help me understand it... Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help. Love with someone you've never met, and do not know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy. Wishful thinking. It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing. hey now i am not a scratch and sniff ![]() true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling I agree with RockGnome and eric. Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands.. then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy. my two cents. ![]() ![]() Having had experience with entering "La La land" and the fantasy world of cyber love... I totally agree with RockGnome, Eric, and rosie. That wishful thinking can become more being in love with the idea of happily ever after with that person. It creates an illusion and make believe world in your mind. Until you actually meet, it's best to keep a huge sign on the wall that says, "It's not real until you can touch it, see it, taste it, and/or smell it"... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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RockGnome, oh wow help me understand it... Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help. Love with someone you've never met, and do not know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy. Wishful thinking. It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing. true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling I agree with RockGnome and eric. Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands.. then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy. my two cents. ![]() ![]() Having had experience with entering "La La land" and the fantasy world of cyber love... I totally agree with RockGnome, Eric, and rosie. That wishful thinking can become more being in love with the idea of happily ever after with that person. It creates an illusion and make believe world in your mind. Until you actually meet, it's best to keep a huge sign on the wall that says, "It's not real until you can touch it, see it, taste it, and/or smell it"... ![]() ![]() ![]() hey now i am not a scratch and sniff ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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