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Topic: Hated not too much?
shovelheaddave Joined Fri 05/11/18 Posts: 668	Wed 08/01/18 08:24 AM
How many likes are you averaging? My count keeps going up, but I suspect most of these are users that are no longer active. Today the total ish down (less) 23 from yesterday. Ash fer the total in the upper right corner [heart shape] the number ish 264. I like MYSELF!!! that is the only 'like' that really matters!!! I think that if you are forced to base your self esteem on how many anonymous people on the internet 'like' you,then you must have a VERY empty and meaningless life!!

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 08/01/18 09:37 AM
I'm using a desktop pc and a web browser. At the top of every page by the Mingle2 logo are command prompts; Account - Mail - Search - Match1017 - Community Right now, it shows I have 1,017 matches. That number goes up and down because it tracks how many people click match when viewing your profile and it goes down as the staff delete scammers from the system or that person deselcts their match with you. It has absolutely no significance concerning real-world prospects.

olivepit Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 393	Wed 08/01/18 09:49 AM
How many likes are you averaging? My count keeps going up, but I suspect most of these are users that are no longer active. Today the total ish down (less) 23 from yesterday. Ash fer the total in the upper right corner [heart shape] the number ish 264. I can stroke my own Ego thank you.

SealB Joined Sat 07/28/18 Posts: 12	Sun 08/05/18 08:17 AM
I can tell by the shaded pics on matches that they are the same P.I.T.'s that are available and I've seen the profiles already. They can send a response if they are interested. What's a P.I.T. you may ask? Psychopaths In Training. Pretty easy to spot anymore. I've only been on a few days, has anyone actually met up with someone in real life?

Charlie686ih Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 300	Sun 08/05/18 08:29 AM
Hi Seal Nice to see a new face here. Yes they don't quit

JimboDoe Joined Sat 05/12/18 Posts: 33	Sun 08/05/18 02:40 PM
Hi & thx klc for the redirect. So if the only reason for me to upgrade is just to find out who has "matched with me" then am i wasting my time upgrading to the plus package? I mean from what i've just read here, it all seems like false hopes, laid out to deceive, for profit.

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Sun 08/05/18 03:38 PM
I can tell by the shaded pics on matches that they are the same P.I.T.'s that are available and I've seen the profiles already. They can send a response if they are interested. What's a P.I.T. you may ask? Psychopaths In Training. Pretty easy to spot anymore. I've only been on a few days, has anyone actually met up with someone in real life? I have met a few and they were good experiences. I think a key is to communicate with someone relatively close to where you are, it makes met ups much easier.

JimboDoe Joined Sat 05/12/18 Posts: 33	Sun 08/05/18 03:39 PM
...or will get that message Sorry, i don't get what u mean. Can u elaborate a bit?

hollybrant Joined Mon 07/23/18 Posts: 7	Tue 08/07/18 02:05 PM
nicely said

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Tue 08/07/18 04:52 PM
it starts fresh each time you click on it. so if you never click on it, it keeps counting. That only happens with the upgrade...If you don't have the upgrade the number remains.... yup and when it goes down it's cuz admin flushed a bunch of bads that had matched with you. mine is holding at about 775

JimboDoe Joined Sat 05/12/18 Posts: 33	Sun 08/12/18 10:36 AM Edited by JimboDoe on Sun 08/12/18 10:37 AM
...or will get that message Sorry, i don't get what u mean. Can u elaborate a bit? Just that they may miss your message either because they have so many, they may not notice yours.... or they may deactivate instead of log off and not get it because of that. some deactivate, reactivate, deactivate, reactivate...beware of that behavior anyhoo... Abuse is all around us i guess