Topic: Why does love take long to arrive?
Molovely002's photo
Sat 06/09/18 06:19 AM
Being a devoted believer in love has its disappointing moments. For my example I am more than sure that Mr. Right doesn't exist,or else he is taking too much time dreaming of me as I him. :-)

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Sat 06/09/18 07:03 AM
Why does love take long to arrive?

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Well that's the postal service for you. You should have used Fed Ex

" when it absolutely positively has to get there overnight"

Randy503's photo
Sat 06/09/18 07:11 AM
Based on a previous topic. Its because people are too afraid to meet.
I'm thinking I might try volunteering for a worthy cause so I can meet like minded people

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Sat 06/09/18 07:14 AM

Based on a previous topic. Its because people are too afraid to meet.
I'm thinking I might try volunteering for a worthy cause so I can meet like minded people



I think it's more like we are afraid to be our true selves. We tend to have a different personality online than we do in person.

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Sat 06/09/18 09:01 AM
it depends on where you are looking too.
if you are just looking online well you are taking a chance.

Online is just a tool, people do meet other people by going out of the house and doing things.


Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 06/09/18 10:00 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 06/09/18 10:02 AM
Some people find love quickly and some don't. I t is a matter of choice and whom we meet and connect with .

Timing plays a huge part. Online is difficult meeting sincere people.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 06/09/18 01:00 PM

Some people find love quickly and some don't. I t is a matter of choice and whom we meet and connect with .

Timing plays a huge part. Online is difficult meeting sincere people.


I think this is about right.

When we are young, it can SEEM as though love happens quickly and easily, but as time goes by, it can seem to happen more slowly, if at all.

I think that's just a sort of perception illusion. I know that if I had my existing experiences, and magically went back to the age I was when I was falling for someone every few months, that I would realize that almost all the girls I fell for, were actually just physically attractive, but not remotely desirable as actual mates.

So love would seem to come slowly for me as a repeat young person, as well.

After all, if love goes AWAY quickly, doesn't that mean that it actually wasn't real love to begin with?

Diljaanji's photo
Sat 06/09/18 01:36 PM
People are not afraid of love