Topic: Helllo
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Thu 06/07/18 04:04 PM
Does relationship with trust issues last long ?

Stu's photo
Thu 06/07/18 04:07 PM
Again, no...

And welcome to m2...waving flowerforyou

fastway1's photo
Thu 06/07/18 06:08 PM
:wink::wink:

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Thu 06/07/18 06:14 PM
Sorry to say no it doesn't. Welcome to Mingle2 Joan.

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Thu 06/07/18 07:43 PM

Does relationship with trust issues last long ?


As far as I know no it does not, but with saying that I have seen/met a couple (near where I live) in a very toxic relationship that defies all known logic and rhyme and reason. They have been told by me and who knows how many others that they should not be together as their relationship is very toxic and yet they still are together. slaphead surprised

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Fri 06/08/18 12:11 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Fri 06/08/18 12:13 AM

Does relationship with trust issues last long ?


I doubt it.


JasonKM's photo
Fri 06/08/18 12:41 AM
You've probably got bigger problems if you blindly trust someone you've only known for a short time.

Some degree of anxiety in a freshly burgeoning relationship is perfectly normal, the trick is to relax and keep a bead on being true to yourself and with a little patience you start to collect the common grounds between how you each express yourselves until you start to get each other without second guessing what the other might actually mean by what they say every time they speak. Just take them at face value and let it build.

Once you've been in previous relationships it's easy to forget that it's a time consuming process to get to the same place with a new person. We always want to just pick up where we left off with someone new and it doesn't work that way. You have to start all over again from stranger and you shouldn't just plain go around trusting strangers. Get serial killed that way ffs.

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Fri 06/08/18 02:58 AM
No trust, no relationship. End of.

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Sun 06/10/18 07:12 PM
hi

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Sun 06/10/18 07:54 PM
Does relationship with trust issues last long ?

Maybe.
Depends on your ability and willingness to communicate, what those trust issues are based on.
A lot of things.

"Trust issues" is kinda vague.

I mean for all I know people can overcome their "trust issues."
Or the "trust issues" two people have are complimentary in nature.
Could be they don't trust each other, but they trust other people even less.
Could be if they try to overcome their "trust issues" it will invalidate the relationship, where if they simply accepted the status quo, and are the type that are capable of maintaining that, it's the attempt to "fix" it that ends the relationship.

There's no hidden magic formula for the perfect relationship.
There are no ideals where if you just did this one thing, just learned how to be this one way, or just improved yourself to this one level, that all of a sudden you're magically compatible with any and everyone, able to kinda professionally approach a relationship and "make" it "successful" long term.