but im just wondering why it is so hard to find a girl that is kind hearted nice and friendly to like someone like me with the problems i have im just asking you dont have to answer

Because you smoke(a dying breed) and because you are a caregiver......women are attracted to bad boys. They say they want a nice guy but always choose the guys that will ultimately hurt them.

Kind of like the wife that keeps going back to the husband that beats her, over and over again. It makes no sense, but that does not stop them.

....or I could have it all wrong:)

if u didnt live so far away id be ur girl

I am sure there are some, you have only been on here for a few days, give it time. Nothing good ever comes guick

Hey dude they are out there...and probably with just as many problems you have...don't look so hard..they usually appear when least expected.

depends on the probs you have...i got my own why do i want yours too..esspecially if there greater then mine....but there is sum one for everyone...take it slow

Everyone has problems babe; and women are in the same boat sometimes -- looking for the kind hearted guy too. I'm not actively looking for someone and sometimes that's the best thing at least for me. When it happens it will be wonderful. Cheer up and don't worry about it so much -- it'll happen.

Every person in the world has some king of problem, be it physical, psychological, etc.... so there is someone who will be understanding to whatever your "problems" are, I am sure.

well i just think i am about to give up might as well

come to ohio....ill date u

The harder you look, the less you will find.

I have to say this to all those guys that wonder why firls go for the bad guys first:

Confidence.

Those bad guys are full of confidence...to the point of being cocky a lot of times, yes, but still..it's confidence.

So called "nice guys" are so busy whining about girls liking the bad guys that they appear to be as exciting as a wet mop.

I prefer nice guys. But I want one with confidence.

Stop whining. or.."qwicherbytchin"

Let us see your strengths. Show us that you believe in yourselves..and we just might believe in you, too.

yea i guess you all right

re prioritize...think it out and re prioritize...but don't give up...unless your french

WMeyers not all women want bad boys -- been there done that. Some of us really do want a nice guy.

coming from me this is going to shock most....i really like to goof and cut up but i really do want a nice guy...ive had the bad guys and i guess thats why im still single....ive had enough of that and wont settle for anything but a nice guy anymore

smoking is probably a draw back for some. I'd change my profile
to say something like....currently my focus is taking care of my grandmother. I'd leave out the whole thing about "problems"...some might just assume the worse...recovering drug addict..etc... leave out someone who won't judge me for my flaws....hey everyone has flaws...
put in some positives...people have told me I have nice eyes...
or something like that....Tell them that your a a hard worker and enjoys helping other.....every caregive is...
You'll do it you can do it!

Quit smoking. It's disgusting and not healthy. Then come back for more advice.

well i guess i will just kick back and wait and see what happens thanks though and good luck on all you serches

Geez people..give the man a break..so he smokes..how many ladies out there smoke or have some other disgusting habits..I don't smoke..but people do have a right to one vice or another.

took the words right outta my mouth..we all want a nice caring person..we just settle sum times is all.. take your time it or she will come