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sex with a woman should "cost" a date??? Maybe a really good date..... they have a name for that... |
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Today, I went on a motorcycle ride date. It was very nice. He also took me to lunch. The date lasted about 5 hours. He was a gentleman and bought me sunscreen. It's nice that he made an effort. I had a ton of guys trying to hang out on my sofa (probably wanting to get in my bed?). I'm sick of the want to come over guys. I'm sick of hearing how are you?, in hopes of a sit at home date. So boring.... Did you get your horn scraped, Ann? |
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sex with a woman should "cost" a date??? Sex shouldn't happen until after several dates and they have become a couple in a committed relationship. |
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Edited by
The Wrong Alice
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Mon 05/28/18 09:03 AM
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What's good for the goose is good for the gander
But what's good for the gander is seldom good for the goose Does anyone know what a misandrist is? My auto correct doesn't I'm all for being a gentleman, but put the shoe on the other foot, how does it feel? Why do they always come in threes and collect things on tissues Do men do that? |
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Women have been the ones to raise the kids 99% of the time. We are use to buying dinner for more than ourselves or movie tickets for more than ourselves. Men have become selfish and self centered. Women don't want a man who will make their lives harder. Too many men these days are more like a child to a woman.
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I believe the courts have a lot to do with that, Ann. Getting divorced with child support often devastates a man both emotionally and financially. He no longer gets to see daily the children he helped bring into this world. Children that he changed diapers for, fed and sheltered often regardless of the cause of the divorce.
My ex ended up with full legal custody of our children after having a proven and admitted affair. I ended up with 18 years of child support payments that initially took, I believe, 35% of my paycheck. Add the 25 or so percent from taxes and I was left bringing home only 40% or so of my salary yet still had all of my own bills that needed paying. I had my children every Friday evening as well as every other Saturday day. On alternating weekends, I had them from Friday night until Monday morning. I was "on call" once a month (always on my "short" weekend) leaving me one Saturday night a month free to do as I pleased. It didn't involve much dating as who wants to date a man who only has one Saturday night and one Sunday a month free to date? Because I never knew when I was going to get off from work, I couldn't plan weekday dates. Oh yeah, she had every Friday night and Saturday day as well as every other weekend totally free from 6 pm Friday until 6 am Monday to date and find my replacement. At least I was with my children. I don't know what I would have done had the house not been mine before the marriage and I kept that. Still had the payments, though. Sign me up for that again??? |
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Ever heard of fathers for justice
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with my first two kids I didn't receive any child support and I had them all the time I wasn't at work. I get minimum child support for my youngest. He got a big raise for becoming Forman and she gets no benefit from it. He had her 4 weekends ago. He picked her up Saturday and brought her back Sunday. This weekend she just didn't want to go with him and he canceled last weekend because of a funeral. He is going on vacation on the 4th. She was supposed to go but the babysitter canceled so she won't get to go. It's a guys vacation now. She is 14 and I let her have friends over. Last weekend I told her I need a life too and went on a date. She spent that time with her brother. I'll probably have her next weekend also.
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That really sucks, but you can't let one douche from the opposite sex jade your view of all the others
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Tue 05/29/18 12:39 PM
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Some times I t is not bad for a man to be in the friends zone, it could turn out him ending in a Relationship with his female friend.
Actually couples should start off as friends, because it seems to last longer in a relationship than, infatuation, lust, or unrealistic expectations, when you think you're right for each other and then you find out you're Not as soon as you live together a few months. |
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.."Buy Me Nice Things and Take Me Places"...
I guess everyone has their price... |
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.."Buy Me Nice Things and Take Me Places"... I guess everyone has their price... I'll give ya ten bucks and a twizzler |
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lol
deal... I'll take it |
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I figured ya cheap azz
good to see you |
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hey you just drive a killer bargain..
you too hon... |
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Miss your smart mouth and stirring
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Miss your smart mouth and stirring awww...miss your smart mouth and stirring too!... |
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Now if you repeat that to anyone I of course will deny deny deny
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My single girlfriend and I were talking the other night. While she's rather bitter towards men, her comment was, that "a girl wants a man that will buy her nice things and take her places".. At my age, I think I agree. What century are we living in? Why can't the woman buy the man nice things and take him places, also? I must agree. Women have more money than they've ever had before and a lot of people say women make more money than men so they should spoil the guy too. I would if I had money. |
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I think women might end up with more money later in life but we work harder and sacrifice more to get it. Women are buying homes at twice the rate of men. A paid off house leaves extra money later in life. I don't mind cooking a meal for a man. But when we are out it makes me feel like I'm taking on the male role if I pay.
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