Topic: Tired of the everyday
morethanjust_janedoe's photo
Sun 12/02/07 12:56 AM
how many out there believe in the whole soul mate / prince - princess charming / the right one?

geektothetenth's photo
Sun 12/02/07 12:59 AM
nope that would make me sad to believe that there is only one possibility for love in the world. Cause the probablity of running into that one person in the entire world is pretty slim.

But I do believe that people can find love. Takes time, but all the good things take time.

sparkletheworld's photo
Sun 12/02/07 01:00 AM
My mom and dad have been married for 48 years and he calls her
his "help mate" and that is good enough for me -- I Believe-I Believe- I Believe

LAMom's photo
Sun 12/02/07 01:01 AM
I so believe flowerforyou :heart:

JohnnyAngel77's photo
Sun 12/02/07 01:03 AM
i believe it to an extent. i dont think it just falls in your lap. i also think you can find love and true happiness from more than 1 person. i do believe there is 1 out there that you will click with and you will both tumble down the rabbit hole together and never stop, you just so "get" each other.


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Sun 12/02/07 01:10 AM
Soulmate - Absolutely! And I agree, that it's quite possible to have more than 1 during the course of a life.

Prince/Princess Charming - Nah. :)

The Right One - Perhaps. But sadly, people so often try to change each other so much to make them become this "right" one, and it's sad. The genuine "right one" won't require any changing at all.

Moondark's photo
Sun 12/02/07 01:20 AM
Considering the billions of people out there, there has to be more than just one person. I also believe in a slightly different idea of soul mate. It isn't always a romantic/sexual thing. There is the concept that people tend to reincarnate around many of the same souls. Soul mates can be best friends or a really great parent/child relationship. I rather like that view of soul mates.

PIDavid's photo
Sun 12/02/07 01:21 AM

how many out there believe in the whole soul mate / prince - princess charming / the right one?


If there IS such thing as "soul mate", then I've waisted a heck of a lot of time picking through other peoples soul mates because I sure as heck haven't found mine.

But if I didn't believe in finding the perfect girl I'd stop looking.




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Sun 12/02/07 01:39 AM

Considering the billions of people out there, there has to be more than just one person. I also believe in a slightly different idea of soul mate. It isn't always a romantic/sexual thing. There is the concept that people tend to reincarnate around many of the same souls. Soul mates can be best friends or a really great parent/child relationship. I rather like that view of soul mates.


I completely agree! If your soul-mate is also your lover, then it is heaven!

As far as prince/princess charming, too often people find physical but no emotional connection, so the relationship does not last. Another pitfall is people making emotion connection, getting into a marriage, and expecting that is all there is because they have found their prince/princess charming. In fact, people need to make real continuing contribution efforts to make it a happy and lasting relationship. How often do we see people become complacent? How many times people feel neglected in a relationship?

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Sun 12/02/07 01:42 AM
I just want to run through a field of daisies in a white body suit indifferent

Jess642's photo
Sun 12/02/07 02:05 AM
laugh laugh Is it that time again already??? :wink:

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Sun 12/02/07 05:59 AM
noway grumble

missmissyj's photo
Sun 12/02/07 08:47 AM
How many people claim the person they are with is 'my soul mate?' Then they end up being dumped. I think the whole soul mate thing is silly. There are alot of different people out there that we have lots in common with. It doesn't mean, however, that they are 'the one.'

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Sun 12/02/07 04:55 PM

Considering the billions of people out there, there has to be more than just one person. I also believe in a slightly different idea of soul mate. It isn't always a romantic/sexual thing. There is the concept that people tend to reincarnate around many of the same souls. Soul mates can be best friends or a really great parent/child relationship. I rather like that view of soul mates.


Thats how I feel. I think that a soul mate is more of a really good friend than the love of your life.

But I also feel that there is someone out there for everyone. I'm a crazy optimist like that haha.laugh

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Sun 12/02/07 05:50 PM
It's hard to find a soulmate to start out with. But there may be multiples.

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Sun 12/02/07 05:51 PM
maybe for some

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Mon 12/03/07 02:38 AM
I actually met mine, and there is no doubt in my mind whatsoever. Period.

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Mon 12/03/07 06:24 AM
I have nothing but doubts about the whole soul-mate thing...
personally I don't think that it exists....Not for me...
But more power for those of you who do find that special someone....I've learned that I lose a sense of self when with a "significant" other...not worth it, not for me...

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Mon 12/03/07 10:47 AM
sweetheart fairy tales come true

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Mon 12/03/07 02:52 PM

sweetheart fairy tales come true

LOL...yep, in movies and novels...j/k....for some people yes they do come true...:smile: