If a good romantic relationship is a goal, keep options open. Explore at least two dating sites! Also get out and meet new men. Online is difficult to meet sincere men. Imo

Maybe it's your bad luck that's all

No I been fortunate. This is for many who have not including you.

Agree. I have an account on other dating sites. I met lots of good people already but we all end up being friends. Anyway I am not searching for a partner. I am just joining there because I wanna meet good people (girls and boys). I wanna chat and chat. I wanna have some time to relax after a busy work. I don't really have time to go out and meet others. In the morning, I do chores at home, in the afternoon I am working after work, it's night already. Time to rest and sleep. During weekend, I do paper works (teacher's life).

I enjoy forums and chat room. I prefer those than pm (but I reply to those interesting people in pm.. one whom I can talk for several hours without feeling bored).

From my experience (joining dating sites), I can say that whether you are searching or not, it's better to talk with lots of people. You will see that there are lots of other good people out there. You will know them when you chat and invest time to know them. Better to make them your friends first too. They're opening more eh than when they're courting where most will say only positive.

That's not a bad luck. That is called, being wise.

Never settle for less as they say. How will you meet the best if you are contented with chatting to only one.

It's ok to chat with many when you are searching and selecting but when you found your girl, you have to be faithful and you need to stop chatting others (for the puropose of making them more than a friend, dating, flirting or doing something unethical). But you can still make others as your friend.

Well said Angel!I agree with you %

Well said..And i agree with you 100%
I am already have someone from site and we talk with Whatsapp every day.
Truly hope she is the one

I looked at another dating site once when I heard
someone was using my picture.

All I found were the exact same people..with
differing profiles.

Thanks pretty

Happy for you.. Best luck.. btw, if you are certain.. if you want the girl it's also nice if you will meet her in real. Dating is still part of knowing but at least you will know more

God bless!

Agree with you.. some might use our profile pic and pretend that they are us...

Too bad.. for sure they are scammers...

One third of relationships start online now.

IMO if that's the goal, then they're already screwed.
Relationships are defined by the people and how they interact.
If the relationship is the goal, then the other person simply becomes a means to an end, a tool, a cog in the machine to get one person their idealized "relationship."

It makes dating sites no different than Amazon.
"I want a nice fluffy cake. My goal is to have a good fluffy cake. So I need to go to Amazon and buy the best egg and batter fluffer thingy I can find."

It removes any incentive or need to learn how to value people for what they are, only how they can contribute in their perceived and locked in role of helping provide that one person their ideal end goal of a one sided definition of a "good romantic relationship."

IMO most "sincere" or "good" men aren't going to be interested in being shopped for like relationship meat.
It's usually the guys that try to be what the woman wants in order to get what he wants that are attracted to that type of "relationship."
Those tend not to be very good guys in the long term, although they will be serious about offering that in the short term.


Personally, I would advise learning how to interact with people face to face and handling interpersonal conflict before expanding net dating site presence.


It's funny. I read in the forums and dating site profiles alot: "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."
The internet tends to bring the worst out of people.


To me that's a sad statistic.
There are more human beings on the planet at one single time than at any other point in history. Most people are migrating to ever larger cities with populations in the millions.
Yet so many have such a difficult time just finding another person they'll be on internet dating sites, populated by those specifically looking for connection with someone, for years and still not find someone.

If there's a problem meeting someone "sincere," I really don't think it's solely the lack of available people, or the internet's fault.