A third eye is sometimes scary... have you ever seen or felt the super natural Lars? lol

This is so true.
I've mentioned 'baseline affinity' before in the forums here.
Those baselines have a lot to do with how apologies and hurt happen. It also has a lot to do with how apologies and hurt are accepted.

My one son once commented on how people can spend so much money on things that don't really matter.
I explained to him that there are people in this world where money has never been an issue. That costs are not a concern and they have never wanted for anything. Its the way the world is.

Some of us, are concerned with cost. Money is a big thing.
Same with feelings, apologies and relationships.
Some people don't care about others feelings.
They don't 'feel bad' for others.
They see no valid reason to apologize for anything to anyone.
It doesn't make it wrong or right, its just the way world is.

Some people will try to get away with everything. Only accountable when caught. They exist in an affinity that allowed it. They will treat people like crap and only apologize if called out on a specific incident. Then, some will argue about it.

For me, I exist with the affinity to do no harm. When it happens, I am taken aback and work to find a solution. There are a lot of people with my affinity. Yes, there are many honest people with integrity. So many that those without, still stand out and are rejected for it.

Most people will align themselves with people of the same affinity. If you find that the people you know are cold, insensitive or dishonest, change your associations to match your affinity. If those around you are just like you, there usually isn't a problem.

Oh. I just copied that expression of a certain someone

And what I feel atm, is sunshine in my heart

I wasn't put on this earth to be held responsible for anyone's happiness or sadness nor is anyone responsible for my emotional state except myself.
If someone hurts me or makes me, sad on purpose, it's up to me to decide if I want or need those kind of toxic or manipulative people in my life.

Let's take a common issue in relationships. Hanging out with friends and not including your S/O. Space is vital for a healthy relationship, and while the other person may be sad, they need to learn how to compromise.

So I think, that it differs from situation to situation. If it's an issue that you can help, which will strengthen the relationship then sure. Make a change, and put a smile on their face.

Its one thing to be held responsible for anyone’s feelings and another if you know you are the cause of sadness by what you said or did. Does this mean you dont deal with it and just move away from drama? No offence meant just want to understand your point

You compromise because you love the person and dont want them unhappy. With the case of saying hurtful things and you don’t apologise because you believe you were just being you ... what are your thoughts?

You don't hurt your loved one at all, love needs empathy, so you know what hurts your loved one and you don't do it. Sounds so simple, does it?

Yes i wish its that simple all the time

It is simple, it is common sense ... well, it should be. But it is a principle for me, a rule, a ... something starting with the letter 'p'. Forgot what it was

Partners in pain ? Peaceful partnership? Promised ? lots of p words here

Peaceful and everlasting partnership, after supporting each other defeating the pain? How does that sound like?

That sounded perfectly coordinated Lars

Aye. Us Germans are very efficient indeed

I bake them a cake. Cake makes everything better.

I love cakes but they dont love me

Indeed youre the only German friend i have

If you know the other person is hurting because of you............

1 If you're still in the relationship, APOLOGIZE.

2 If you not in the relationship, why did you dump him if you love him?

No. 1 is but no. 2 is a bit confusing to me. Can you dump someone you’re not in a relationship with ? And the one who does it might not be the one in love after all. The person whos more in love wont even imagine breaking up

You can keep me if you want