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Topic: Is love essential for a human being?
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Wed 11/29/17 11:56 PM
Love is only sexual relationship or souls mate.
But in present time love is only sexual need .
This was my thought. I may be wrong.love

MissyChe's photo
Thu 11/30/17 01:53 AM

Love is only sexual relationship or souls mate.
But in present time love is only sexual need .
This was my thought. I may be wrong.love


If that's what love for you then probably that's not love at all...

If you're in doubt then there's probably an underlying reason behind that.. perhaps you really know that you are wrong

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Love is more than a feeling
It takes time
It isn't selfish
It brings joy
It is patient and kind
It is knowing everything about someone and still accepting and continue loving him/her after everything that you know


Love has lots of definition but definitely it isn't just for pleasure

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Thu 11/30/17 03:13 AM


Love is only sexual relationship or souls mate.
But in present time love is only sexual need .
This was my thought. I may be wrong.love


If that's what love for you then probably that's not love at all...

If you're in doubt then there's probably an underlying reason behind that.. perhaps you really know that you are wrong

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Love is more than a feeling
It takes time
It isn't selfish
It brings joy
It is patient and kind
It is knowing everything about someone and still accepting and continue loving him/her after everything that you know


Love has lots of definition but definitely it isn't just for pleasure
























Thank you so much sister Missyche. You answered correctly, it is so heartbreaks that many men see love this way. They think having sex with women is love, is so sad

604banana's photo
Thu 11/30/17 03:28 AM
yes. it comes differently to each. sometimes good sometimes things must be said

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Thu 11/30/17 12:30 PM
Oh boy................

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Thu 11/30/17 12:46 PM
I like turtles.

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Thu 11/30/17 03:02 PM



Love is only sexual relationship or souls mate.
But in present time love is only sexual need .
This was my thought. I may be wrong.love


If that's what love for you then probably that's not love at all...

If you're in doubt then there's probably an underlying reason behind that.. perhaps you really know that you are wrong

-------------------------------------------------------

Love is more than a feeling
It takes time
It isn't selfish
It brings joy
It is patient and kind
It is knowing everything about someone and still accepting and continue loving him/her after everything that you know


Love has lots of definition but definitely it isn't just for pleasure
























Thank you so much sister Missyche. You answered correctly, it is so heartbreaks that many men see love this way. They think having sex with women is love, is so sad



Me too Sis.. Love is not only about sex. Sex should be done too when they are married to the person they love... so sad, in our present time only few value this... they always think that things are just for pleasure :cry:

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Thu 11/30/17 04:20 PM
Edited by Pepinofruit on Thu 11/30/17 04:24 PM


Topic: Is love essential for a human being?







"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, love other/s in spite of ourselves only." ...

Love brings up emotions that run the gamut from agony to ecstasy. Love can inspire us to accomplish some of the craziest and most amazing feats.

Love can make you happier than you've ever been, sadder than you've ever been, angrier than you've ever been. It can elate you and deflate you almost at the same time.

While we can all pretty much recognize the emotions associated with love, actually finding the words to explain those feelings is a pretty tough order.

People have searched for centuries to find the right way to say "I love you" and to try to explain those butterflies in your stomach, that warm fuzzy feeling in your belly and that heart skipping a beat.

One thing we DO know is that whether you've love and won — or loved and lost, it's ALWAYS worth it.


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Thu 11/30/17 04:29 PM

Love is only sexual relationship or souls mate.
But in present time love is only sexual need .
This was my thought. I may be wrong.love
I think you're a bit confused on what love and sex is...

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Thu 11/30/17 04:49 PM
Edited by Pepinofruit on Thu 11/30/17 04:59 PM

William Shakespeare 10 Wonderful quotes about love!

https://youtu.be/4qRrNT3t51M

♡♡ 25 Romantic ways to say I love you ♡♡

http://youtu.be/tG9VZoh1mnE

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Thu 11/30/17 05:15 PM
Edited by Pinkbunny43 on Thu 11/30/17 05:18 PM
oops

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Thu 11/30/17 05:18 PM
Sex is not love, love is not sex.......sex is an act, love is a feeling.

And yes we as humans require love, but love comes in many forms.......parental love, sibling love, friendship love, love of ones self.....etc.

MissyChe's photo
Thu 11/30/17 05:33 PM

Sex is not love, love is not sex.......sex is an act, love is a feeling.

And yes we as humans require love, but love comes in many forms.......parental love, sibling love, friendship love, love of ones self.....etc.



Agree :thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:

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Thu 11/30/17 05:36 PM
Is love essential for a human being?

Yep.
Not like water, where if you don't get it for 3 days you'll immediately die, and the type of love that is essential is needed in different degrees at different stages of life.

Love is a significant source of vitamin nurturing which is part of group cohesion, purpose, and identity.

Love is only sexual relationship or souls mate.

The "love" you acquire via "only" sexual relationships is more like a fast food type of love.
Might taste good as you get used to the taste, your body may come to crave the taste when really it's just addicted to the so called fats and salts, and it may fulfill some minimum level of nutrition, but over the long term it leads to a lot of problems and bad habits.

"Souls mate" love is pair bonding, for procreational purposes.
It's essential for longevity of a relationship but only to a certain point. It's not meant to last forever. Everything changes and evolves.
Even "love."

But in present time love is only sexual need .

Not really.
In present time that's just the type of love a lot of people tend to binge or gorge upon.
Again, like fast food. The more you rely on it, the more your cooking and nutrition skills are going to atrophy.


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Fri 12/01/17 01:03 AM


Sex is not love, love is not sex.......sex is an act, love is a feeling.

And yes we as humans require love, but love comes in many forms.......parental love, sibling love, friendship love, love of ones self.....etc.



Agree :thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:



Certain this!:thumbsup:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :

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Sat 12/09/17 08:53 AM
Well, strictly speaking, love isn't a "need." I think that calling it a need, is a romanticized way of appreciating how truly wonderful and helpful it is, but accidentally adds confusion to it all at the same time. People tend to treat "needs" rather crudely.

Frankly, it sounds as though the thread host is going through a bad patch, and may be lashing out a bit in frustration.

Basically, my advice is: don't blame love itself, when it's individual people who are letting you down.


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Sat 12/09/17 09:18 AM
Hahaha, I exist.
While I can show love, I have gone years without receiving love.
Love of any type or degree.
I am alone. It has been years since I felt a tender touch or had someone hold and hug me.
While I do miss love sometimes, I am no longer consumed by its absence.
I would certainly welcome it, when or if it comes to me but I am invisible to the eyes that might show me love.
Is it essential?
NO, but it can be pretty damn important for some.

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Sat 12/09/17 09:52 AM
A love Supreme -- John Coltrane

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Sat 12/09/17 10:13 AM
Edited by Godsfriend10 on Sat 12/09/17 10:19 AM
Love is absolutely essential for human existence.
Lack of it gives way to hatred.
Having sex and showing love are two different things.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 12/09/17 11:01 AM
Lack of it gives way to hatred.

LOL, what gives you that idea?
At what point will I be filled with hatred?
Human existence is not an either/or condition.
Next thing you will say is that people are either good or evil.

Just because love is not expressed towards me doesn't mean I don't express love towards others.
It also doesn't mean that I expect love to never be expressed towards me in the future.
I optimistically expect to be found by someone that thinks I am worthy of their love.

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