is there still a guy who want LDR and find their someone and willing to risk everything just to be with that girl and stay loyal in better or worst day?

Yeah for sure there are loyal guys out there.. be positive and be patient sis

I am curious....why pick LDR vs local?

Why would you seek a LDR? It is hard enough in this day and age to keep a healthy relationship with someone you can at least see on a semi-regular basis. Long distance relationships rarely work out...specially if they cross country lines with visa issues etc.

Lol I was wondering the same thing

I would say some folks don't like where they're at and want to move to a better place

Better place, motown? Is it like when someone dies and people say they are in a better place now? oooh I don't want to be in that better place yet.

how about a warmer place rozie?

I was in a warmer place, eric, but I like winter better.

In my opinion you can become very good friends with someone you meet online, but until you meet up in person you don't really know if it would become something more than friendship. If it were to become an LDR, and with regular meetings in real life, then yes I believe people are willing to take risks to be with the one they love, they don't want to live apart long term. Whether it becomes a happy forever after depends on the two people involved.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

you can't choose the one that you will love sometimes when you become close to someone (foreigner or from your country)... you don't notice, your feelings develop too

I figure this is how it would go with me ...
I meet a LDR guy online fall for him ...

and as soon as I would do that ...
then I would meet the love of my life off line local ...

then wtf

that's no worse than meeting a guy locally and falling for him and then finding the love of your life at the grocery store mysti

no... people are only loyal when they're close...LDR's never work...

women in rural places seem to think the grass is greener elsewhere...

LDR can work. My Mingler came to me, because the grass is definitely greener here.
About loyalty? Well that depends on their integrity.
It can be very lonely though, you need to speak daily to keep the flame kindled.

We had five years together. Yes we are not together now, but what I am saying is LDR can work.
We worked through the visas and he was here working in New Zealand. We had passed the year living together needed for him to apply for residency.
Then we broke up.
Not everyone would have the issues we had though, which broke us up.

Thank you Blondey

nice