“Did I change or did you just stop loving me.”
“I’ll be okay is that what you want to say?”

Nope.. Not in a broken relationship..

you only have 2 choices if you feel your in a broken relationship . first figure out if it's fixable and if it's not , then get out . i was in a 9 yr relationship and i knew something was wrong after about the 3rd year but i hung in for 6 more and tried to fix it , in some pretty outrageous ways i might add , but in the end it didn't matter , so i had no choice but to end it and move on . no anger or scars or fears when moving on . i didn't carry it with me . just a learning lesson in life . now i know what i need to see better when i start a new relationship . don't let the past haunt you . just learn from it and move on .

There comes a time to back away from a relationship~~~if your in one that you feel there are issues either try to fix them or walk away from what can not be fixed...

I don't believe in being miserable with someone I would rather be alone and at peace with myself~~~~

You are either in a relationship or you aren't but why would you choose to be in a broken relationship?

I have not had a Relationship for over 10yrs. I have not dated or spent time with anyone other than my own family I created.

I have devoted myself 100% to raising my family for 33yrs. To make sure my children are College Educated and have careers. out of the 33yrs, 11yrs was given to my grandchild raising her so my Daughter and Son in law could finish college and get BS Degrees, then jobs, a home, cars. Today they are in great jobs state and city.

I was the 50's Mother in the 80's world, I treated my (ex)husband like a king, maybe too good. Baths ready when he arrived home, 8course meals, robe, slippers, drink waiting for him, the house was spotless. I was always dressed and beautiful for him. My idea of a family was not his idea of a family or a life I placed a world TV image on him that I thought was Reality. I learned this lifestyle was too unlivable for him.

18yrs later, I created a new life as a single mother raising a new type of family, Mother putting 2 kids through college running a daycare inside the house to pay for college.

Then I tried to date but a man can not understand the Mothers devotion to her family so it was best I was alone.

Today: My kids are grown, they have a life of their own and I myself have decided to find what I never found. A Person who remembers the 50's and enjoyed that type of lifestyle.

Again the image I have for my life does not fit everyone it only fits the image I seek. When I find a person who seeks the same lifestyle I will then devote myself to only that one person, I will not date anyone but one who has the courage to be loved with a heart and mind. and who understands what lovemaking is.

Can a man be Masculine and Feminine at the same time and be a good husband? Yes! He is sensitive, compassionate, understanding and understands the mind and soul of a women's heart and needs.

Why am I still single because my generational thought of a Man is fading out soon there will be none left.

323.1 million people(2016).
The number of men was 119.4 million.

Most of the Men at this age 65 and older, there are almost twice as many women as men (4 million vs. 2.1 million).

That leaves .1% that I will find the person I am seeking. I have hope! I seek a 10 yr to 20yr different in age as I said in a woman in the past who chooses to stay in the past. I was born in the wrong year.

ME TOO! All day...!

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Thank you for your reply

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Amen to that!

You've done a great job in what you've described. Please do remember the feminist slogan from the 70s--"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."

Amen...

Ok,this boats starting to fill up. 🛥🛶‍♂️‍♀️🛳⛴wanted to see what they all looked like.

Broken and nonexistent
Found out it was all one sided