How to determine if you gf or wife had someone else

Ask her

ego desperem

Check the hamper...

fidelity

Do you mean ever, before she met you, while she was with you, or any of the above?

same way as we women find out about it...check their mobile phone lol. messages and call logs are such a give away

If you do that you put yourself in a very negative vibe. You will slip into not trusting, fear, doubt and once that gets going -and it will the moment you grab that phone- it's difficult to stop. It won't do your relationship any good, it will only make matters worse.
Sneaking around and doing such things is not healthy behaviour, not for you, not for your partner. It will only do damage while maybe there's nothing going on.
It's better to gather your courage, and just ask. Maybe that is scary because you may get an answer you don't like, but finding out via their phone won't make you happy either. And then you'd still have to deal with them afterwards.

Agree^^^

If you mean.. if she had (sex with) someone else before she met you?.. then that would fall into the NOYB category. What ever happens before you is irrelevant to you... good lord!

fyi - NOYB = none of your business..

Do you really need to know that? It's better to leave the past in the past and don't carry all that "old cemetery" with you :)) Start a new life with your gf or wife and it'll be your life without ghosts from the past.

How do you know if your gay

Another case of different attitudes in different areas of the world (Mindanao is the second largest island in the Phillipines). On one hand your profile states you're looking for an intimate encounter. And you need to know the sexual history of your latest sex partner?

She could ask you the same question and your answer could be a deal-breaker for her.

IDK, check if her handcuffs are loose?

If you wake up next to another guy with a bad taste in your mouth, it's a pretty good indication.