i never saw it that way thanks charles

thank you i dont know what you mean by asians having a higher beauty standard though but whatever that means i know its nice

that accusation is merely a grain of sand pretending to be a boulder along your path...based on the comments so far, I think we have paved over that spot of dirt very well...continue to enjoy the Mingle boardwalk...cheers...

I said that at the risk of sounding stereotypical. Countries like S. Korea, there's a lot of pressure for women to always look sterling! I watched an interview where they said almost all the ladies get some form plastic surgery. Especially with the eyelashes or is it the eyebrows.

Funny thing is, y'all look beautiful on that side of the globe already. That's why I said your beauty standards are pretty higher.

Some losers aren't used to seeing hot ladies like yourself in a dating site. They don't matter anyway. You do you!

and this is coming from one of the real people thank you sir

so that’s what you meant a lot of asians are really into looking westernized. i guess the obsession to have what we cant have has gone the extreme its really not the ethnicity as everyone is unique and beautiful in their own special way imho im glad people can still recognize real from fake

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I always have an old saying..

" The dogs are barking even to the wind/s. "

I have had few saying I am a SCAMMER also
And that's perhaps because I canceled my new account
and got back to my original old one...( For a good & solid reason )

Anyway,

As for your originality ... Let me check it out.



Yup, sure.....
Nothing wrong with you
Cheers

Well, whoever is making a statement like that clearly does not know you.. at all.

You are far from fake.

hello

that was a cool magnifying glass there pepi glad im not the only nice spammer here lol. thanks for the boost of confidence from that very original comment you made.

Thanks greeneyes

Hi scepticalsoulmate, I believe you are asking if you need to prove yourself, simple, no. Your profile is your profile, as long as you feel comfortable with it is enough.
The tough part, every story have two sides. The question is to what provoke the "accusation". Only you and the other party knows. Either way, welcome to the "online dating" with its own rules of engagement. Once we move out of Mingle, if you did, then matters get more interesting.
As a season Mingle member I know that it takes time and effort to get to know good long last people here. Also, it takes time to weed out caustic people.
For the most part, not my experience, but if it was a male that did that to you, I'll apologize for him and to let you know, not all of us are like that.
Be careful as we as humans tend to repeat our own actions, those ones that bring you to start a tread like this.
Hope this words help you and others in this site. Have fun, be safe.

thank you cheeriosoo i joined mingle to know if anyone out there is meant for me. i cannot be anyone else but the plain and simple person i am. i am too naive and think the best of people to a fault that i sometimes trust too easily. i have learned my lesson that not everyone online or not are the real person they set out to be specially those who are very secretive in the very beginning but insistent on making friends. there is a line between men who understands the meaning of no to a relationship and just a yes to friendship. maybe it was my fault or maybe not but i was just being me. i hope someone else learn from this thread too as i have now learned who the real people are and getting to know them more in time

had to find the meaning of the word. thank you so much dear i know how rejection feels so i try to emphasize at the very start its just maybe sometimes people would like to think that a no means a yes? but your theory there is quite interesting . i wonder if spectaculous soulmate sounds good it kinda feels like wonder woman and superman was and will be my ever first love .

your comment made my day thanks again

So, based on what you've said here, is it safe to assume that there are a lot of fake profiles on here?

Based on my experience there are a lot of fake men as well as women. I was just too trusting at that very vulnerable time that I trusted too early. Good luck and I know when people look deeply and see the signs then sorting out who’s real and not would be easy