Once in your lifetime,have you ever love someone(romantic involvement)until it really hurts literally your entire being?

I have done it but it was mostly subconscious . I knew i was gonna love hard and some red signs showed me they possibly had npd and were gonna go in hard double down on the emotional pain to break me. However i wanted the Pain which can lead one into altered States of consciousness which can take one high up, very high up. But you really have to love hard and offer yourself up honestly for Narcissist or sociopath to make their move and try and break you. I knew they would eventually as narcs are predictable so when it ended i was crushed and used the pain to change my brainwaves from beta past alpha into Theta so i could hit into altered states and use alchemy to break apart and come back up higher. I kept goijg back for more emotional pain and as always they wanna break u so they gave it , smh

But this comes with risks ,these personality disorders can be dangerous and they onky give emotional pain if they really think it will break u hard and destroy you

Ive leveled up off Narcissists and can play the Game and use it well to my advantage . Again it comes with risks .However Narcs wont come near me now i guess they sense my intentions and that im crazier than them lol

Narcissits will love bomb (Idealize, devalue, discard, afterall it is a cluster B personality disorder )but but their end goal is to crush you and throw you down hard so they are interesting reliable people to fall for if u are going to try and self destruct yet you need a source to do it as it can be exhausting to seek out other pain sources. I use emotional pain to reach altered states and have since i was abused as a child. I need the fix , crisis just dont come along every day and once you are used to hi levels of trauma and pain u can rush it seek it just like the populace seeks love just in reverse !!!!!!

I was put thru hi levels of abuse and trauma and shock treatments as a child so i learned how to use pain to reach altered states. Again i did this to survive NOW i am going into an Initiation new one using altered states in a Ritual Format i dont need to go thru somewhat created crisis or fall in love with sociopaths just to get pain so i can get a fix. Ive learned that im not gonna die if i dont get emotional pain im gonna be ok its been a hard lesson in life to learn.

Yes I have.

I dont think anyone should stay in a situation where they feel abused or mistreated, but I do think that there are times in a relationship that can be painful or hurtful.

Bob Marley said that , everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

I believe this to be true.

Yes, the love can feel so intense at moments, the longing so much, that it is almost painful.

Well the first page of the KamaSutra says...
If it hurts....your doing it wrong....or your doing it too hard....or you need to visit the doctor....or your probably eating some bad dates. JkD

;^)

If your own life starts to deteriorate... you have to let them go.

I don't know if love has hurt my entire being... but after a night of real loven ..certain parts of me really hurt...ewwww ouch !!..hard to wash that area after..lol..
WHAT!!COME ON!!.. we've all been there!!.
Lol.. okay some of us more than others..
But still.. Hurts So Good.

truth brother. its supposed to hurt. thats what makes it good.

Seriously, yes absolutely.

The way I'm taking this, is as a question as to whether the emotion of love itself, can get so intense, that it crosses the line from feeling wonderful to feeling very bad indeed. Nothing to do with people being bad to one another, just plain very strong emotion itself.

And again, yes, absolutely. It's much the way that tickling can be fun up to a point, and then it becomes torture. Rich, sweet chocolate can be fabulous, up to a point, but when it crosses that point the very same taste becomes unpalatable.

I think I know what happens. It isn't the other person's fault, and it certainly isn't "Love's" fault, since "Love" isn't a being or a force. When love overwhelms a person, it is because they themselves, went to the heart of their own emotions, and opened the spigot all the way, thinking that there's no such thing as too much wonderful.

When it gets that wild, you need to take a deep breath, realize (as in tell yourself firmly) that this is YOU doing this TO YOURSELF, and that you need to go back and turn that spigot down again.

Unless it's a cute baby. In that case, you just have to make sure you don't actually do anything to the baby while you are wigging out about how insufferably cute it is.

That's why i let go Max...no matter how hard it is.

But hey!i can't pm you Master.What happened sir?

A feeling that it's like killing you deep down inside,huh!

peggy!
Thanks for sharing always your rational thoughts.

I believe,when someone starts treating you crap,accused of absurd falsehood accusations and verbally abusive.
Let go,turn your back no matter how much love you have for that person.

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