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it is, but people do it all the time.
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your point is
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your point is . |
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your point is . Well, did you see the point???? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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the point is, I refuse to take sides and I refuse to argue anymore.
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my point is
it is easy to give advice if it does not affect your lifestyle directly and no matter what anyone thinks they do not have all the info on the subject thus we can discuss it till we are blue in the face but it really will not affect you in a major way |
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the point is, I refuse to take sides and I refuse to argue anymore. who is arguing and about what i am discussing the thread title |
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<------slaps the quote button out of the room!!!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You are discussing the thread???? Where does divorce come into play in this thread? |
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<------slaps the quote button out of the room!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You are discussing the thread???? Where does divorce come into play in this thread? as i said before we all know and have given advice to couples in the process of a divorce we are not getting the divorce thus we are outsider (not necessarily) with a clearer view |
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but what about that same couple whom you spent every xmas eve with them since before you were married.....It would feel odd the first time without them....and THAT would affect YOU!
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yes maybe so
but it would not affect your lifestyle and if you are single and get married then chances are you would not do that any longer neither it would not affect your way of life it may change one evening of entertainment but not your lifestyle |
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their getting divorced changes their lifestyle
it may inconvenience you a little but it will not change your way of life |
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I think it would affect my lifestyle.....what would I do on xmas eve? It would affect me, and them.......now what?>???
![]() ![]() ![]() And if I were married again, maybe that is what we as a married couple did? What if we were all friends before....it would indirectly affect our lives as much as theirs. |
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I think we need to agree to disagree.....but that would be waaaaaaaaaaaay too easy huh??
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I think it would affect my lifestyle.....what would I do on xmas eve? It would affect me, and them.......now what?>??? ![]() ![]() ![]() And if I were married again, maybe that is what we as a married couple did? What if we were all friends before....it would indirectly affect our lives as much as theirs. not even close unless you all live & sleep together it may inconvenience you a bit but the way you live your life would not be changed you may find someone else to spend christmas with but you could still do it with someone |
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I think we need to agree to disagree.....but that would be waaaaaaaaaaaay too easy huh?? ![]() ![]() ![]() hey i agree we disagree but i am the one that is correct ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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and what if they were my only friends?????
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i would have to come up to canada and be an illegal so you would not be so lonely
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