so if you break up with someone you love but you wish you didnt how soon should you wait before you ask to get them back if you do decide to take them back??

Why wait? A good relationship should not be based around games. Although before you do it you should seriously think about the reasons that you broke up w/ her in the first place.....

I think that depends on "why" you broke up with them in the first place.. Really there is no rule for how long to wait, except for taking the time to be sure of your decision either way..

I would ask you first why you wish you didnt, and why did you to begin with... I had this issue with my X, i broke up with her and 2weeks went back, i thought i loved her, i was comfortable with her. I was so used to her company it hurt to not be around her. So i ask are you comfortable with her?

Good point! Make SURE of your reasons for taking them back! But if you are sure..DO NOT WAIT!

Hope she didnt cheat on you

lol, come on

it don't make any since you call'ed it off why should he/she take you back..why should they trust you...AGAIN

I think there are alot of factors to consider here. Like, how long you were together...are you sure it was "love", and not "lust"...the "reasons" for the "breakup", and why you "regret" your decison. Take your time and think things through carefully...before you ask her back...and it might depend on the circumstances of the "breakup"...whether she's willing to even take you back.

RICKG1961:

Good point and I agree with you there. Relationships are hard enough and if that was done to me, I wouldn't go back. There's a reason for the word ex. It should mean a permanent goodbye.

If you really love her... GO GET HER!!

I think some people confuse love and "routine." If you ask a lot of people, they will say something like, I miss the things we did together. I think everyone falls into a routine with people, its sad but its very true. Our lives do become a routine, as boring as that may sound...think about it, it happens to every one of us!!
I think what you need to do is try and figure out what the good things were about your relationship. Why do you want her back? Why did you break up in the first place? You need to sit down and make a list and write the good and the bad down. I don't know if the guys do this...but I can tell you this, the women sure do!! No-one has to read this but you...if you need help going through it, have one of your friends help you.
Sometimes when we are in a relationship, we are blinded by love. We don't see the bad side of a person, but our friends tend to notice the things that are not so great about them!! So if you are brave, ask them if they ever noticed anything that really stood out that you might have missed. I did that once, and I was really shocked at the things I missed!!
Good luck and I hope you figure things out!!

Isn't this the plot to all date movies? Boy meets girl. Boy loses girl. Hilarious romantic comedy ensues as boy tries to get girl back. They kiss. Wedding. Credits.

If the cards are in place, there are plenty of ideas out there to patch things up.

seriously even if it is love , dont tie yourself down... I mean who wants to eat the same old cheerios for breakfast everymorning