Just ignore the nasty people.

oh, i did for the first thousand times,
now it's just getting annoying.

if you are fatigued and it is reportable - then report abuse or harrassment. no one on the site should be harrassed. this includes abusive mail as i understand it...

missfabulousxo;
with age comes uynderstanding and wisdom. You should not be offended but take it as a learning process. People do not pick on you just because your young. They just feel that you have not been there done that enough. Give it time.

I personally do not care for the pics where the men are without shirts. I want to see what is under the clothing on my own choice.

i understand, but who are these people to judge me?
they have NO idea what in the world i've been through.
i think i've been through a LOT in my 18 years of being
here. yes, yes, yes, i am very aware that others have
been through a lot, probably a lot more, but why can't
people just give me a break?

That's exactly why you SHOULDN'T let it bother you.

Every time they piss you off, they control you. They win. That thought alone should be annoying enough to put a stop to it. And to be honest, the more you talk about it on the forums, and dwell on it, the worse it's gonna get (kinda like now). Just relax and let it go.

I mean, I get like 20 emails a day for penis enlargement, but I don't let it get to me. They don't even know me.

I am by no means a "young spring chicken" and I still get the same thing you do. You just need to let it not stick in your mind and let it go in one ear and out the other. Many people can be ingnorant and think you have to be a certain age in order for what you say to have substinance.

I too was on my one at an early age and this was a time when teens were not supposed to be out on their own. I went through the same things but made it through them.

Try ignoring what they are saying and you will see it will stop. People will not continue with something if there is no response.

sctterbrain.....I fully agree with what you have written and could not have said it better, but.....I do not wish to be 18 again.

Paper! What in the world are you talking about!? There is not a one of these people that want to control that young lady. Most here just want to be of help. Protect her from the inevitable. It is just the way it is. We will at times talk to her as her parent would. Try and lead her in the right direction. I wish I had had people like them here to guide me along.
I have them now. They have been so much help to me you cannot imagine.

Honey, I know nothing of your mails. I have never ever got a bad mail here. I cannot see a regular on here doing that to you. It could happen I guess, but I cannot see it.

As for that penis enlargement advertisement? I get them all the time. Boy...that would take SOME DOING!

Hang in there. You will figure it out and at some time, accept it. We piss each other off at times. That is life. Just shake it off, and begin again.

You will be fine.
Kat

you're so sweet,
thank you.

Mama, I was just kidding about the 18 thing. No! I don't do that again. I was actually thinking of the way I liked guys then.
Kat

Just saying, if you're letting someone put you in a bad mood... you're LETTING them. You can stop anytime you want. That's the control I'm talking about. I wasn't attacking anyone (everyone's so defensive today!)

But one thing I HAVE learned about women, is that a lot of the time, they don't want your "help" because it usually implies some kind of judgment. They just want someone to listen and not outline the 800 things they are doing wrong with their life, ya know?

Most the pictures I have posted are of myself. The closest I've got to a shirtless pic is cleavage shot that my friend took on her birthday and we were both a little tipsy. But it definitely isn't my default picture.