What do you need cut?

Well since you're putting yourself out there, maybe when your done helping Crystal, you could help me with a few things around the house?

I could say, a bush, but then I'd be lying... The hedge can do with some serious pruning...
I got way too much garden for me to handle... weeds, danged weeds.

hello my friend

Lots of great comments and thoughts. I do love my wife very much and I still do want to spend the rest of my life with her. Love is not a finite resource and the more you share the more you have to give. It is not some sort of conquest I am looking for either. I do think it's funny how cheating is more socially acceptable in society then allowing your partner to meet other outside of the relationship without drama. I would not say that either of us pressured the other into it. We talk to each other about our desires and we truly want to make each other happy.

Will everyone understand...no. You couldn't be gay in public not that many years ago. BDSM is becoming more socially acceptable. This site has relationship categories that match the lifestyle choice I have made. So this site does cater to open relationships. There are many that do not.

As for issues with the good book...that will be between the maker and me when the time comes.

There's nothing wrong with it, as long as both partners can live with it and the relationship is solid.
But finding someone to accommodate this will be difficult. In general single people want to find love and a good, lasting relationship. They're not looking to become someone's Nr 2, the 'other woman'. There's no future in being the other woman.
Good luck in your search.

@RetroGeekster. Open Relationships are the only type of Relationship i will be in. If an individual is an Adult ,has a job pays their Bills has. Drivers License is a functioning member of society who also has completed a vast ,brutally hard Resume of Spiritual trials why would they need another human to monitor them like a child????

Monogamy in my opinion is for people who need Rules because they themsleves are not fully empowered themsleves. I hope no one takes offense to my viewpoint its just how i feel. A Man can use protection, screen a female to see if shes psycho and have an encounter if he feels it will empower him

However ,Relationships in the West most of them are not aboit individual personal empowerment they are about how u can break down another human so they will be weak and docile and dependent on you since most people have little to no self esteem anyway

However, i am talking here about individuals who have done an enormous amount of spiritual work along with being able to survive and function in daily life with a job and bills. This type of person is rare indeed

The masses need structure, control ,rules and the complete breakdown of another person within a relationship which they than call love to function . This is not love its a slave relationship and it is encouraged thru advertising by our govt because a docile weak, overweight , low self esteem society is easier to control when they decide to declare Martial Law

I don't want my women playing around. I'm perfectly ok with doing it myself though. I know that makes me a hypocrite but I don't care. Might is Right.

Open relationship it's just another way of saying I'm searching for the next mr. Or mrs. Right... that's what it's all about all the time always looking for that perfect person.. partner

@no1phD, i dont know what u mean its about looking for that next perfect person. I dont view any of us as perfect just always learning and growing. I just dont see it like that. Im not going to treat a grown man like a child but to not be treated as a child he would have to be really independent and have done a lot of soul searching and inner work.

If a Man im seeing in an open relationship comes across a female he finds intriguing and he screens her checks to see shes sound mentally and uses protection. If sleeping with her empowers him if the experience make him a better Man why would i take issue with that ????????????????????

@red6mist. "I dont want my women playing around but im perfectly ok with doing it myself" i think that is so beautiful how u expressed ure feelings on this topic. Maybe just talk to ure girlfriends and see if there ok with that . If they care about you they will want u to feel empowered. If you want a blueberry slushie at the convenience store would ure girlfriends say no????? I hope not its pretty muuch the same concept. U really opened up and said how u feel thats fantastic. Many females are monogamous but they shouldnt put their religious type relationship paradigm on u . U want to experience others yet u can still hold done some type of partnerships , again i think thats lovely