Topic: How does a woman really know if a man is interested?
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Sun 11/25/07 06:03 PM
when i had a boyfriend i think he called a max of 3 times laugh laugh laugh i just stopped talking to him i he seemed so concerned for me laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 11/25/07 06:21 PM
I would call you every day, but at my age I think thats called stalking, and would burn for it too.

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Sun 11/25/07 06:31 PM
Okay, I'm confused...or maybe just too tired.

Are we talking are they interested before you actually meet in person in real life? Or just online stuff?

You just never know until you meet someone in person. Yes, the relationships you make online are real. However, for the real life boy/girl relationship stuff, go have to meet face to face.

Then again, I have gone out with people never to hear from them again. Oh well.

Okay, I am tired. Babbling again.

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Sun 11/25/07 06:32 PM
laugh laugh at Michigan

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Sun 11/25/07 06:32 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou for Michigan

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Sun 11/25/07 06:53 PM


I'm interested in Jess and Snuggles. Does it matter that I am a girl? And I'm not interested in them 'that way.' Get your heads out of the gutter! Would love to have a meal and shopping and spa time with them.

Thumper, I know you are a romantic at heart. Everyone knows!

And on to the original topic, who the heck knows. All I know for sure is that actions speak louder than words!

Hugs, M


As I am you Michele, it saddens me at times, for some people to minimise, and sully something that is genuine affection, respect, and a natural interest in another human being, irrespective of gender..

I don't know about the shopping thing, may I sit outside and watch the clouds, and wait for you girls??:wink: laugh laugh flowerforyou :heart:



I would love to spend time with Michele, and Jesse..........wish we could get together

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Sun 11/25/07 07:43 PM
It's just kinda weird nowadays, guys have to show interest without coming off as TOO interested, or a stalker, etc.

But even then, I can't believe women could be confused by this. We aren't the coy ones in this equation :tongue:

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Sun 11/25/07 07:55 PM
Longhairedbiker:

laugh laugh You're quite a character and I love some of your stories. Someone I know has that guy beat, as far as problems go. He got poison ivy in a bad area!! I'll laugh for the rest of my life about it. He'd been mowing his yard and didn't wash his hands...and guess what? He'd gotten into the poison ivy. Guess he learned his lesson, big time.

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Sun 11/25/07 07:57 PM
LOL that is so wrong!! Years ago, someone once did fart and hold me under the covers!!

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Sun 11/25/07 07:58 PM
JackPaper:

Yes, I'm the confused female on this. And the reason I'd started this discussion is because I've had males tell me before they would call and then didn't. Because it happened so many times, it's led me to wonder...how would I know if they were interested. Better yet, why did they even say they'd call?

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Sun 11/25/07 08:00 PM
Romantic...

Without reading this whole thread, all I have to say, is GUARD your heart. It is so easy to be HURT. Take it from someone who knows all about it....

flowerforyou

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Sun 11/25/07 08:29 PM
what about if he helps u with getting good deals shopping? is he interested?

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Mon 11/26/07 09:53 AM
longhairbiker:

Just to show you what a fool I am, I mistakenly hit the wrong button on the friends email you sent me. I meant to hit accept and not decline and now have no idea to fix this mistake. Yes, I'm laughing at myself...big time, cause it's just part of the crazy person I am. If someone can help me figure out how to fix that, please let me know. I'd be so grateful!! :)laugh

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Mon 11/26/07 12:48 PM
thats a tough question!!!

if you are with someone in real life, i am sure the signs are much easier to read. however online he could be saying sweet things to more than just you... and you may never know...


but if by chance you do find an answer to this question, please feel free to email it to me...flowerforyou

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Sun 12/02/07 08:03 AM
I think men, especially those into online dating, always think the grass is greener on the other side. So they go out with you and have a great time but then they are still searching for a better catch. Then a week or two later they call back begging you to go out again. I get very aggravated with this game.

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Sun 12/02/07 08:24 AM
Longhairbiker

The chances of a man giving a woman his wallet are less than the odds of winning the mega millions lottery. ohwell drinker

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Sun 12/02/07 08:25 AM
If they are interested they will call/get in touch with you somehow.
Of course...they may be interested but assume that you aren't, which can screw things up anyway.

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Sun 12/02/07 08:28 AM
Actions speak louder than words. If a guy is interested, his actions will show it. Don't expect him to do exactly what you want, but he should pay sig. attantion to you.
Always remember; go slow, be careful & guard your heart ar the start.
Lots of players out here, in both sex's.

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Sun 12/02/07 08:30 AM
To tell YOU something and THEN not to DO IT...

Is PART of YOU knowing THEM!!

The ones who would lie to you about calling you, would be someone YOU would'nt really WANT to KNOW anyway!!

But, LIFE and LOVE on the NET, is FILLED with USER'S and liar's.

BUT AGAIN, there are some GREAT TRUE PEOPLE ON HERE..

Just try and meet them. And then try to get to KNOW THEM, before you EVER open YOUR HEART!:heart:

Good Luck here and share your smiles.....:wink: flowerforyou

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Sun 12/02/07 08:33 AM
She usually knows when her phone rings! laugh