either the woman or the guy is from a family where one person controls the whole houses activity and actions and words and then starts a relationship full of wants calls the guy stupid for not taking her words seriously about each though of part of life and family the baby gets treated like it was bought from the pet store after she babysat her sisters kid and now wants to hafta have a kid of her own by you and as a separate cute little thing that's supposed to be thought of all day and night look even TV becomes controlled and fought about the guy starts getting treated like he was also bought by her from a pet store too eat what she says to make her happy and say think and do what she wants instead of both being life smart from day one during life loving each other sharing life during loving being a couple in a home living together during life
sometimes the guy becomes the wanter and controls each life action and word of the household living environment to feel goalfull and needed and successful after getting home from work all day tell the wife and kids what to do after wife and kids obey then he feels like he did the right thing by his actions period,yeah after a relationship gets treated like obeying each others thought wants its time for a therapist or a recommend separation back to singleship.

that left me breathless by just reading it. too many complications too many drama...toxic caustic life... anyone would wish to be out of that.

It comes down to drama and the need to to remove it like a cancer. Sometimes it's external bleeding in, insecurities of other people be forced or a lack of confidence in one's self leading to clingy or pushing nature

Why do couples break up?
Ego.
Pride
Incompstibility
Lack of being valued by your partner
Lots of other ressons

You left out "failure to use legible grammar, punctuation, and thought organization."

To my thinking, there's really only one reason why relationships fail: incompatibility. That incompatibility can be anything from tiny habits that each person has, that drive the other one nuts, to being functionally on entirely different planets in how they view existence.

But incompatible is incompatible, however you SUB-label it.

I would say the top reasons for failed relationships are:-

Incompatability
Lack of commitment/effort/discipline
Poor communication and conflict resolution skills
Unrealistic expectations
Taking each other for granted

For me, I don't follow a list of common anything.
My relationships are unique to the two of us.
If they fail for some reason or reasons, the failure is ours and unique to us.

This topic makes me wonder why you choose a negative topic?

If a list is composed that is accurate for most people should I post it on my fridge door as a list of things to let me know our relationship is failing or failed?
Believe me, I know when my relationships are failing.
Sometimes I want them to fail. Not from the start but after I get to know the other person better, at which point, I end it.

To exist in a negative mindset in a relationship you are setting it up to fail.
Trying to assign your own negative conditions, for failure, to others implies that all others are just like you.
We are not.

somebody call Guiness . I think that might be a contender for the longest sentence..
Poster has de-activated anyways.. lol I had to check to see who writes like that..

Trust is the main issue .. if u dont have trust u cant keep longer ur relationship

Not at all..break up gives strenght..it gives clarity in thought

..and if I may add to your list..

Not fully committing to the relationship..

Not being able to put the other person's needs ahead of your own..

Immaturity or irresponsibility.. the lack of taking care of what needs to be taken care of and when it needs to be taken care of..

Insensitive.. to everyone around you..

Self-absorbed...

Making little test for your partner..ie.. if they do this they must love me ..if they don't they must not...

Being emotionally detached...

Workaholic...

Oh and I almost forgot most common reason for breakups...

Sleeping with their friend or one of the neighbors.... or perhaps even the neighbors goat....lmao

Glad you added the goat. As a matter of fact I was thinking of the poor thing the other day.
I do hope the female you're seeing is an actual woman and not another goat. I mean... you may get away with it once... but more than that.. the neighbours would start to talk and get suspicious!

Don't talk about goats! Not after what happened here a few years ago
And crystal,nice photo

...ohhh.. let the neighbors talk..lol..
I bring spice and excitement into their lives..lol.. and yes! my lady friend is all woman...mmmmhhhmmm...

Thank goodness! Swapping Kleenex for a 4-legged creature with hooves may be cheaper, but there are limits on what's socially acceptable. I mean... you could sneak a box of Kleenex into a restaurant, but a goat would be pushing it
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Ps... hope you aren't offended by me goofing around, as that is all it is. I'm quite sure you know, but still.
I am truly glad for you that you've found a lady friend

finances and infidelity...and all of the symptoms that cause these 2 things

Biggest Reason !!!!!it really doesnt have anything to do with the other person. Life changes you and each person is trying to find who they are thru all the changes . Breakups the pain the suffering is so intense it builds character and you learn more about who you are . If it works great if u go thru a bad breakup thats great too as the suffering will build character. Either way you still have you and thats what counts

these days , I think the biggest reasons are boredom(something more exciting is out there for them)

or



distrust(one has betrayed the other)

or unreasonable expectations that aren't met (one person expects the other to make certain changes and they do not,, OR they expect them to not make changes and they do)