Topic: What did you learn from your x's
missmissyj's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:48 PM
I learned to go with my gut feeling on certain things. If it doesn't look or feel right, something is wrong.

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Sun 11/25/07 02:43 PM
RICKG1961:

I learned never, ever date (or live with) an over the road truck driver again. He worships himself and his wallet. I'm not a gold digger, but this man was so selfish, he should stay single for the rest of his life.

Duffy's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:48 PM
what did i learn from my x husband, hunka burning love mr. nice guy? that when he says he is out of the area, he is still here....cause i saw his skinny buns not more than l bigsmile l/2 miles from where i live while he was terrorizing me. but i think i scared him, and he is out of the area NOW. aren't chu hun?bigsmile

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Sun 11/25/07 02:50 PM
It's always best to forget ex-spouses entirely. Life is simply a whole lot nicer in the long run!drinker drinker

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Sun 11/25/07 02:58 PM
what didnt i learn is a better questionohwell

i learned a lot through the years with my ex

madamx7316's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:59 PM
i learned to wear a helmet and carry a weapon lol

popcornncoke's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:18 PM
I FOUND OUT THAT YOU CAN'T GO BACK,NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WOULD LIKE TO.HOW DO YOU TRUST HIM AGAIN,AFTER HE BROKE THAT TRUST AND YOUR HEART.BESIDE WE AREN'T THE SAME PEOPLE WE ONCE WERE.

Jess642's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:26 PM

I guess some of us have to learn the hard way
and i did but learned well and alot about myself...
like how i so much better off with out her,
i learned she was avery conrolling women who
loved money and wasn't satified with any thing
i just don't understand how a preson can play
with someone else's feeling'e like that.
i learned what love was and wasn't too bad i had
to learn the hard way...but at least i learned
how to let go...and yes i would do it again....
i did learn no one is the same....


What have I learnt from people I have had romantic relationships with?

So many things, to my children's father, I learnt resilience, I learnt belief in my capacity, to forgive quickly, and allow expression.. I learnt how to admit, I could not 'fix', nor 'change' another, nor be 'fixed', nor 'changed'.

I learnt how to be a mother, for him my undying gratitude, I learnt how to love freely...:heart:

I learnt how to say goodbye, with no malice, nor unresolved frustrations and anger, I learnt to accept responsibility, for my part in our relationship.

Every person who has passed through my journey, has had a gift for me, I only had to allow it..flowerforyou

newbornwoman's photo
Mon 11/26/07 07:49 AM
I learned that I am very lovable and that I am a great friend. I learned who I was. That is the most important thing

Nervesgone's photo
Mon 11/26/07 07:52 AM
I learned what not to do in a relationship. I won't go into detail, but live and learn!!flowerforyou

blonderockermom's photo
Mon 11/26/07 07:58 AM
I have learned to let go, move on, and never look back drinker bigsmile

Jtevans's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:00 AM
Edited by Jtevans on Mon 11/26/07 08:09 AM
I've learned you can't concentrate on a football game while having shoes thrown at you

dhutch9's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:03 AM
I learned from my ex-husband that money DOES NOT buy happiness and that I'm a whole lot tougher than I ever knew.

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Mon 11/26/07 08:06 AM
that i don't need a man to be happy.
how bad it hurts to be cheated on.
actions speak louder than words.
relationships are a 2 way street.

unsure's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:11 AM
I have learned many things from my EX..I will say this, I never look back I just look ahead!!
My ex was a good man, we just can't be good together! I have no hard feelings towards anyone. I wish him well and I hope he finds the one that is meant to be with him.
In life we learn many things from so many different people, some things are good and some things are bad! I guess you make the choice of what you learn with each relationship. So, with my ex, I was taught that communication is the key to a very good and strong relationship!! flowerforyou

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Mon 11/26/07 08:13 AM
the differenc in having sex and making Love, how to cook, and that I could sleep next to a woman for 2 months without sex!!noway laugh

unsure's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:16 AM
haha Mikey...NO MORE SEX FOR YOU!!! I guess she taught you huh?

CaRisLOVE's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:20 AM
i learned dat i was made to be a good lover in bed and dat i love to pleasure alot
bigsmile

Nervesgone's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:20 AM

I have learned many things from my EX..I will say this, I never look back I just look ahead!!
My ex was a good man, we just can't be good together! I have no hard feelings towards anyone. I wish him well and I hope he finds the one that is meant to be with him.
In life we learn many things from so many different people, some things are good and some things are bad! I guess you make the choice of what you learn with each relationship. So, with my ex, I was taught that communication is the key to a very good and strong relationship!! flowerforyou



Well said, just change the man to woman!! flowerforyou

unsure's photo
Mon 11/26/07 08:25 AM
flowerforyou thanks Nerves

I don't understand why everyone thinks you have to hate your ex?? Am I strange or what? I only want the best for my ex and I hope he finds happiness. Life is way to short to worry about anyone but myself and my children!!
I say live your life and let others live theirs flowerforyou
Maybe you have to go through something terrible to understand that life really is short???
I say be happy and healthy flowerforyou