hello mingle land three more months and it will be my first year anniversary here i have been thinking if i should just give up on my soulmate search here and look elsewhere or just persist till i get frustrated lol...maybe i should spend more time at my local supermarket or go to other sites...hhhmmm

i would want to thank mingle though for improving my vocabulary and writing skills and friends ive made and people ive known and still will get to know...

Don't give up on us baby, (David soul)
Old song

heres one of the good guys here ... take note ladies thanks mikey

Thank you soulmate, you can't leave yet,your vocabulary is still rubbish as is your grammar. so I'm thinking one more year then exams and maybe you can leave

i take back what i said mikey is not one them lol well cant say the same for you maybe you should stay here like forever hehehhe. peace my friend thanks

You should never give up on your search. I wandered in here briefly years ago, found the Forums and I'm still here. but nothing wrong in looking elsewhere at the same time.

Exactly

thanks anny suggestions?

I can only suggest a google search, there seems to be lots of free dating sites these days.

Well, If you leave you will miss out on all the pastries we will be having.
Some even have real fruit.

Personally, I go to about 9 different sites in my search. I use each site differently. Its bad forum etiquette to link to a site's competition.

I do know that when I find mine I will no longer use the online dating sites because I will not be looking anymore.

Another thing you might try is non-dating forums.
Search for a community that has a focus on something you like, start participating, make friends and you never know.
I belong to quite a few non-dating forums. Ranging from science/physics to movies, music and art. Just recently I became admin at a SHTF Prepper site (SHTF = Shidt Hits The Fan).

Getting out in the community is a great way to meet people.
My disability restricts my activities like that so I am kinda stuck with an online search.

If you are healthy enough, go bowling, golfing, libraries, book stores, malls, parks, beaches, etc.
When you elect to do the in-person chance meet search, the key is frequency.

You gotta kinda hang out there.
If you like coffee or some type of refreshment, go to the same busy place every day about the same time. Take your time and linger, talk to people that interest you. Then, if a guy wants to see you again, he will have a better chance of meeting up with you because of your predictability.

"The woman that talked to me yesterday was perfect for me, I'll go back there today about the same time and see if she is there again. Maybe she will give me her name and number?"

hi scep, sometimes it could be frustrating.
sometimes we just need a break
sometimes good things happen to bad people
sometimes bad things happen to good people
... but sometimes good things happen to good people

now, if bad things happen to bad people... like getting hit by the door on their way out and then falling down the stairs after they mistakenly took poison for cough syrup and stabbing themselves multiple times before they hit the floor...

we say chit happens

I say don't give up! I feel kind of bad about some of the stuff I wrote in a previous thread. I'm not going to stick around because I want someone to grow old with not watch them grow old and leave me behind. I also paid for the year and I don't want to let that go to waste I know I was dumb for paying. I've been getting a little desperate lately and E-harmony didn't seem to cut it. Most people my age definitely are not looking for something serious yet. Online that is. I thought since there were older people on here I might be able to find someone with a little more maturity my age. I feel kind of dumb for looking at it this way. I feel bad about mixed signals I don't know anymore. So you guys are stuck with my confused arse for anymore year. I didn't want to say this because if the one for me is older I wouldn't complain but they would have to be very special.

ok so i love cakes and pastries Tom ... thats enough reason to stick around thanks

hello rozie i guess yes chit happens anywhere not just here. thanks for the advice. god bless

cheers ome people are people whatever age or nationality we maybe. thanks for your advice and pls take the same advice and do it too

Tom good luck on that name and number...the next question will be what are you going to do with it next keep us posted

I suck at advice that turned into a whole spiel about me. Thanks soul mate I think you are definitely going to find the right guy for you I don't know if it's on here but you will.

thanks ome that was a boost of confidence you gave me there...just keep posting. its always interesting to hear new opinions anywhere