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if mr perfect came, i wouldnt reject
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hmmm
please tell him to come by autumn at the moment it is too hot for ..... :'( |
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It depends !
People can enjoy life as single or not...but; in different ways.The life of a single can be full and rich or not;plenty of good friends and activities or be alone in the society.It's our choice. The life of a married people is a constant sharing with the right person; the loved one who give priority giving more than receiving. Then;ladies and gentlemen; ...it depends |
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I have been married before and I am happy to be single. Well, let's just say, unmarried. I enjoy my time by myself so I can do the things I like to do without someone complaining about that I'm not spending enough time with them. However, being single does have its downside. No one to go places with, no one to share things with. Things like that. I prefer sleeping alone and never was one to spoon. I live in Florida and even though my house is cool, I get hot at night when I'm trying to sleep. I don't mind cuddling for a while but when it's time to sleep I want the bed to myself. At this age I am pretty much 'set' in my ways and it's difficult to find anyone to date. I don't tolerate much and am not very patient. Guess I'm better off alone. :( It's very true that we, singles all have the moment of feeling the urge for intimacy. Especially when you fight the world so hard that you just want to a testosterone hug or a set of solid shoulder to lay the head in it, just a little while, just a little while , then you would all set for unfinished challenge.... |
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 dolphin....ssshhhh lol. lets keep this as our own secret.lets make sure nobody else is listening ok hahhaha. i have been there and done being married. im not looking forward to marry again unless i know my life will never be as happy as i can without that very special person by my side 
hoping the best for everybody here in mingle
 did I just give away our secret?!  
Ooh Sceptical...hugs...  things may not have worked out the way you expected it but take it as a lesson in life. The important thing is you have learned to love . Failures in life is just part of the process in achieving success later in life.... It's helping you to become a better person, strengthening your faith as you journey to life with hope in your heart. Wish you'll find the RIGHT ONE:)
I don't believe in love ever. However I hope with all my heart that your wish become to true ! Hello Matrueyear   you may say you don't believe in love now, but I do believe there's one tiny light of hope in your heart wishing someday you'll find someone who will truly love you.....that tiny hope...... hold on to it because at the end of the tunnel there is always a light. May life bring you sunshine to brighten up your day
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Edited by
matrueyear
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Sun 05/14/17 10:16 PM
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Oh.... sweet and dearly dolphin, your appearance on this post has already leveraged my day and night.
So, Thank you 
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I feel the same
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no
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In simple words:
Stay single and alone or not; it's a personal choice. Almost all of you decide stay single and not to share your moments all kind because of bad experiences in the past with your partners; then you generalize and all the potential partners won't work for you; you have fear of another bad experience and another one. Let me tell you; LOVE exists and you can touch it everywhere with a different good person. In general; bad experiences are fault of two persons; nobody is perfect in a relationship. No matter what you say; take a cup of coffee or listen a soft music or comment your happy moments or your bad moments; it's much better 2 than 1. But; stay single and alone or not....it's a personal choice. |
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We are never single, always attached to something. |
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In simple words: Stay single and alone or not; it's a personal choice. Almost all of you decide stay single and not to share your moments all kind because of bad experiences in the past with your partners; then you generalize and all the potential partners won't work for you; you have fear of another bad experience and another one. Let me tell you; LOVE exists and you can touch it everywhere with a different good person. In general; bad experiences are fault of two persons; nobody is perfect in a relationship. No matter what you say; take a cup of coffee or listen a soft music or comment your happy moments or your bad moments; it's much better 2 than 1. But; stay single and alone or not....it's a personal choice. Very well said Jazzinc Cheers to the life we have chosen! 
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Oh.... sweet and dearly dolphin, your appearance on this post has already leveraged my day and night.
So, Thank you
The feeling of having someone to comfort, assure, encourage , hug and kiss you is called love.......not necessarily from a lover....love is everywhere. Love is all around us but who knows, somebody might be lurking around just waiting for the right time to approach you 
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I feel the same Cheers for all of our single of male and females!
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........... somebody lurking around just waiting for the right time to approach you
Eh..... have you? If so, what was your reaction for " his approach "? |
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A single what? 
A single happy female . Never tried that. I'm not sure. I dear you would try  
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Edited by
matrueyear
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Tue 05/16/17 06:02 AM
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.......partners won't work for you; you have fear of another bad experience and another one. Let me tell you; LOVE exists and you can touch it everywhere with a different good person. In general; bad experiences are fault of two persons; nobody is perfect in a relationship. No matter what you say; take a cup of coffee or listen a soft music or comment your happy moments or your bad moments; it's much better 2 than 1. But; stay single and alone or not....it's a personal choice. The fear is built by emotional receptors. The sympathetic nerve system forms a layer of protection wall each time we undergo emotional hurts. Thus, while we chose to be single or mate , you know if you have to be a happy person first. Otherwise, the hurt recycles
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Edited by
jazzinc
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Tue 05/16/17 12:47 PM
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.......partners won't work for you; you have fear of another bad experience and another one. Let me tell you; LOVE exists and you can touch it everywhere with a different good person. In general; bad experiences are fault of two persons; nobody is perfect in a relationship. No matter what you say; take a cup of coffee or listen a soft music or comment your happy moments or your bad moments; it's much better 2 than 1. But; stay single and alone or not....it's a personal choice. The fear is built by emotional receptors. The sympathetic nerve system forms a layer of protection wall each time we undergo emotional hurts. Thus, while we chose to be single or mate , you know if you have to be a happy person first. Otherwise, the hurt recycles
It's interesting your "medical" interpretation of fears. But ;let me tell you this;dear lady:About bad experiences from the past; you can't do nothing; they belong to history. All fears derived from all that past;will end to disappear one day or another; If you find that special person who will love you completely as you are and as you act. But; you have to believe in love again because LOVE exists;it comes from God.Brief; you start a new life with a new and different person; it depends your choice at the right moment If you don't believe all that;then; stay single and alone or not....it's your choice; madame. |
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Yes
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........... somebody lurking around just waiting for the right time to approach you
Eh..... have you? If so, what was your reaction for " his approach "? If a guy decently approach me, I have no problem at all to entertain anyone who would treat me with respect but it doesn't mean entertaining someone who is interested with you means you feel the same way too. You give a chance to all the possibilities. You'll never know he or she could become your boyfriend or very good friend. People come and go in our lives, some just acquaintances, some stay as as friends or may become your boyfriend or girlfriend, others would just pass by and leave a mark in our hearts and someone could hurt you. But whatever it could be, it's a life's lesson, an experience in our day to day living. I just try to open my heart and mind to all the possibilities in life with positivity. Having inhibitions or fears could limit your experiences in life, I have been there before, I let good opportunities slip away ..life is boring and lonely.....take life as it is , embrace all the good and bad, learn from it and appreciate them all even the ones who have hurt you
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i do then i didn't then the cycle just goes till its time for the dryer
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