yeah, well ashton is able to take care of himself with or without demi!!

Dear SDM -

I would like assure you that you are not the only one with this "problem"! I get these too - and whereas you are only 28 - so an 18-year old would be - although definitely too immature - (because I read your profile, and he probably didn't ;->) but still only 10 years younger; I'm 52!

Presume it comes down to one of these: a) they want to be taken care of (in every respect lol) b) they can't read c) they think they are exactly what womankind has been waiting for...

I had a 12-year younger boyfriend once (many years ago, when I myself was 32,) it lasted for 2 weeks - until we had to start speaking to each other :-).

lionqueen, how right you are! and i am POSITIVE i am not the only one with this problem! i just need a little insight as to why the heck they do it!!!

COME ON GUYS....TALK TO ME!

ladies, i still want to hear your stories on this!

well im almost 20 so im not that immature

I'm only 23, so I'm too old to be the 'younger woman' in that creepy old guy way...lol, and I'm too young to be the 'older woman' in that Mrs. Robinson kind of way... lol, SOOOO I get the guys in my age group of like 22-25 that have NO FREAKIN CLUE!

nope, not immature, but you can't buy your own beer

....and you believe age makes the maturity level?

dont be so sure about that im a military brat all i have to do is go on a military base and i can buy all the alcohol i want

i think its the persons experiences in life really,i play video games online, there are like 50 60 years old people playing and being immature on them lol

now that is not true, a military ex-spouse..if you do...it's not on post

well were ive been i was able to, lol, especially germany as long as u can see over the counter u can buy

yeah, i really dont believe that either...ive been on plenty of bases and they still ID the soldiers hun...unless you have a dependent card saying you're of age, then i dont believe you on that one.

sweetie, i was in germany! and i had a ration card! they asked for my id for cigarettes!

Well, I look for a lady who is emotionally mature, financially stable (not in huge debts), has goals and knows what she wants. I don't look for "older" women per se, but these qualities do come with age and life experiences. The younger ones tend to live in the party scene. Of course, there are exceptions to every rule.

ur aloud to buy alcohol at 18 on post, at eh commissary adn shoppette, and the Px, but i dotn drink that much anyway so theres no need , just when i go to a party or somehting

SO, BACK TO THE TOPIC!!!

just got back from germany, and on the german pubs yes you can..hell, if your able to hold the stein...you can drink

idk i was able to , depends on teh peopl, i guess, cus on my base they get people who arent military to work the places

I dont know about all, but most women look for the same thing! And the situation is this....an 18 yr old!!! Really, what can he offer me that I dont already have?

a car? got it
a house? got one
money? dont need any
kids? got one already
a f***? well, im not looking for that

lol i wouldnt mind dating an older woman theres nothign wrong with it really it just means uve been alive longer