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I overheard at the coffee shop yesterday (paraphrased):
"You only think my questions so personal because you think your person so questionable." Oh NO...NO...NO! Another couple of triggers.. -Why do you "always"....? -Why are you being so defensive? Any examples of better language to use? |
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Yeah, try 'Your problem is...' that always
leads somewhere fast :-) |
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Yeah, try 'Your problem is...' that always leads somewhere fast :-) Lmao! Stinger. Impotence (misspelling/word intended) for escalation. |
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It's not me, it's you!
Or should that be the other way around ![]() |
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I overheard at the coffee shop yesterday (paraphrased): "You only think my questions so personal because you think your person so questionable." Oh NO...NO...NO! Another couple of triggers.. -Why do you "always"....? -Why are you being so defensive? Any examples of better language to use? An example of better language would be... "When you __________, I feel __________". It leads to a less defensive reaction and takes responsibility for your own feelings. |
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My go to is, "You suck! Kiss my azz!"
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![]() "So, sex is out of the question? " always works. |
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You're paranoid
I don't mean you Beach, I mean one could always use that phrase |
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![]() It's all ok. No offense taken. I may be a bit paranoid. |
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How's your sister?
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() |
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() That's not as bad as saying Is she single ![]() |
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() That's not as bad as saying Is she single ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() That's not as bad as saying Is she single ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night ![]() |
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() That's not as bad as saying Is she single ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night ![]() Krissy ![]() Where do you get those sort of ideas from? Youngsters of today ![]() ![]() |
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() That's not as bad as saying Is she single ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night ![]() Only if you are a guy ![]() |
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How's your sister? ![]() Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" ![]() That's not as bad as saying Is she single ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night ![]() Only if you are a guy ![]() ooooo yeah didn't think of that ![]() |
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I'm right.
You're wrong. Now..let's eat. |
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Lot of things to fan the flames or at least start a slow burn for sure.
Always interesting how people say how they hate drama but they slice and dice with words with the best of them. |
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Lot of things to fan the flames or at least start a slow burn for sure.
Always interesting how people say how they hate drama but they slice and dice with words with the best of them. |
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