Topic: Input desired
some_what_pushover's photo
Wed 04/19/17 07:34 PM
Have any notes for me about my profile

no photo
Wed 04/19/17 07:42 PM
Most of the photos are either blurry or taken in crappy lighting. You could use a little more information in your essay about who you are and the type of partner you seek. Otherwise, it's not bad.

no photo
Wed 04/19/17 07:51 PM
You've been here a long time. What are the problems?

some_what_pushover's photo
Wed 04/19/17 08:30 PM
I haven't been on a long time I started a long time ago. Met someone and "deactivated" my account. Just got out of a relationship not too long ago so i thought I give this a try again that's all

some_what_pushover's photo
Wed 04/19/17 08:33 PM

Most of the photos are either blurry or taken in crappy lighting. You could use a little more information in your essay about who you are and the type of partner you seek. Otherwise, it's not bad.


How dare you insult my photo quality sir! Good day to you!
Lol just kidding
Thanks for the input

Itsme011's photo
Wed 04/19/17 08:37 PM
When I filter matches, why is it not showing inside my filter

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 04/19/17 11:20 PM
Ditch the second sentence in the last paragraph and it is a pretty good effort. Never waste profile real estate on history or what you don't want. B

The pictures are ok. If the lead had a little better lighting it is much more flattering than the second or last.

Get one good full length photo and try photos that relate something about yourself to jump start a conversation. Try not to pose or do cheezy selfies. The thumbs up smiling is upbeat which is good but hat indoors not so much.

Welcome back.

no photo
Wed 04/19/17 11:50 PM
The first to photos are ok, the other 2 are cheesy get rid and take or find better ones.

Your essay needs more work, lots of it and get rid of the second to last line. You're 28 years of age. If you struggle to write a decent paragraph about yourself, what kind of conversation do you provide when in a relationship?

Put more effort into it if you're serious about wanting to meet someone.

Good luck

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 04/22/17 12:59 PM
Well you are amicable to instruction which is good.

I came back and reread your profile and factored in your age, and you might want to do a little more tuning up.

Starting a profile with Hey usually makes an adult woman start sniffing around for the the end result of hay. Try something a little more formal like Hello.

Unless you have duel or advanced degrees you really want to explain why you are pushing a decade as a student.

Might be the perfect time
to show a little gratitude for the family, entry-level employer, or scholarship program that got you through. Since massive student debt is intimidating if you worked your way through or busted yourself getting good grades a little low key brag is all good.

And hopefully you are not just planning to lay around on your degree you probably want to at least mention a career plan and a target
J-O-B.

And maybe even your living arrangements. 30 May not totally be "Failure to Launch" but if I were your age I would NOT even move in the direction of a guy who might just be looking for another girlfriend to move in on so he can play day and night. SORRY but college is still considered play in the real world.

some_what_pushover's photo
Tue 04/25/17 10:39 PM

Well you are amicable to instruction which is good.

I came back and reread your profile and factored in your age, and you might want to do a little more tuning up.

Starting a profile with Hey usually makes an adult woman start sniffing around for the the end result of hay. Try something a little more formal like Hello.

Unless you have duel or advanced degrees you really want to explain why you are pushing a decade as a student.

Might be the perfect time
to show a little gratitude for the family, entry-level employer, or scholarship program that got you through. Since massive student debt is intimidating if you worked your way through or busted yourself getting good grades a little low key brag is all good.

And hopefully you are not just planning to lay around on your degree you probably want to at least mention a career plan and a target
J-O-B.

And maybe even your living arrangements. 30 May not totally be "Failure to Launch" but if I were your age I would NOT even move in the direction of a guy who might just be looking for another girlfriend to move in on so he can play day and night. SORRY but college is still considered play in the real world.


Good catch! I didn't even think about that gap.
Btw i am using my degree. I start teaching in August. Almost done with the credential program :)

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 04/28/17 10:29 PM
Congrats on the teaching position.