I have been with a woman now for over a year now. We meet on a dating site and lucky for us we found our soul mate. I deleted my profile but she won't delete hers, she still talks with other guys and tells them that she is single. I have talked to her about this and how it hurts me to see it happen. What do you think I should do about this?

Dadjr916
This is just my opinion , it needn't be it, but ponder on it for what it's worth .

A relationship is an exercise of trust , in our courting and honeymoon phase of finding someone we are elated and exibit who we can be at our best , it not faking it roleplaying , putting out our best performance. It changes as soon as it is acknowledge and thing move forward with realities of life , at least as a man I know it did for me and we will never be aware of it ,I am dead certain of it.

But for a woman they are emotionally evolved and more advanced that us guys , they know with experience, about the inevitable disappoint that awaits them after the initial euphoric phase , and they just hope to God it does not happen

But hey trust a man to do a good job at not making emotional sense .

To her again it is an inevitable truth and sometime not strong enough to Be tested time and again which naturally ware anyone down , don't hold it against them , they are emotionally more superior .

Let just say you guys are serious now and moving to the next phase . The effort to keep up with the honeymoon is technically over for you , but have you ensured she has had her fill on feeling good . If not the only way to prove it to her is to continue to do what and what ever it takes till she is satisfied and feel secure inside . That what being a Man is all about . Sometime a boyfriend , sometime a son , some time a father , sometime a husband and all of this to the same woman , If your successful in this , I can promise you you will not have to ask her to stop , she will as you wish

Hope you both find peace

Rgds
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