Pain and depression made me write this. You know, may be I should be sick more often, people look different to you when your sick or in pain. That attractive woman looks different when your sick, she's just not attractive that way no more when your sick.

May be this is why they say "in sickness and in health until death do us part" We got her when everything was healthy and she looked attractive, but she got sick, or you got sick, man your seeing something completely else, completely different.

You know you got her when she was healthy, but your not going to take care of her when she's sick, she's not going to take care of you when your sick, you got her based on looks, based on lust.

Truth:

Should people be in relationships if they can't tell the truth, if their lying to themselves on some level. You know I don't really think the truth is an easy thing anymore. You say you want the truth, inward truth, but I don't think truth is an easy thing.

I had a situation where I was at the job centre and asked why I didn't attend a job interview. In that moment was immense difficulty just to tell the truth if it was the truth that I told, it wouldn't come out, because there are consequences to telling the truth.
Are you prepared for the consequences regardless of what may happen telling the truth? That is an immensely hard thing to do, sometimes I don't think so.

You know you got her when she was healthy, but your not going to take care of her when she's sick,

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So you bail out on her when the chips are down, when she needs you the most?

Not good... not good.. at all

if your relationship is only surface level
based on physical attraction but nothing else
then no it would not surprise me
if neither wanted to 'put up with' someone when they got sick