yeah, if my mom pulled a stunt like this to find me a husband...i would so be signing her up for hobbies to keep her busy!

I think her intentions are good but I agree, he has to make his own mistakes in life, thats the only way we learn and mature!!!

and last time i checked....vows are for BETTER AND FOR WORSE.

this i like that movie with the mom and three girls. and she puts up an ad and interviews a bunch of guys. its a recent one. ne one know the name?

because I said so - cute movie

yeah thats it! thank you so much. that would have bothered me forever

I know it's his choice who he wants to be with and if there are any girls looking for some one desent email my son. He can read the emails and make a selection. Hopefully someone we all like instead of hate. (mom, sister, and older brother all hate.) csi1994 I't seems you like to sling mud so I know we wouldn"t like you. kojack I already bowed out and let him learn by his mistake's.

he's a big boy....so stop meddling. if you had bowed out, you wouldn't be on here trying to get someone for him. trust me, i wouldn't want a meddling mother-in-law with a momma's boy!

I'm the one who posted my son is getting married to the ***** from hell.

um wow...

why would i email someone that is married....uh think about this....you are setting him and yourself up for alot of ridicule

Marriage is supposed to be for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health. He could be richly advised to ask his poor mother to seek medical attention for the good of his own health.

Failing that. Post his own thread.

i kinda feel sorry for him

yeah this is kind of sad.... how do we vote to delete this so noone else sees it... for his sake

In all fairness to mothers across the globe, I do understand what you're wanting to do. My oldest son is 24 and I would probably try and do something to get him to see that there are other woman on this Earth.

However, you are in a position of creating either a good or bad experience for him here. You enjoy it, and he may not feel the same. It may cause him to feel uncomfortable.

As for the statement csi of marriage meaning "for better or for worse"...nowhere in the marriage vows does it say that we have to stay in a marriage regardless of what our partner does. I agree that two wrongs don't make a right. When my ex's...yes plural cheated on me, I did not return the favor. I have too much pride to let them or others talk about me. I have self respect. I don't remember getting married and having the Judge say, "but if he cheats on you, you still have to stay, because I said". No one should sacrifice their own happiness for that lifestyle.

Again, mother's are suppose to "meddle", but we need to be more descrete about how we handle things. Pressure from you and others may be overwhelming and cause him, out of loyalty, to make additional bad choices.

Mom, allow him to grow. I see you're trying. Good luck to him.

He is seperated by his own choice. They have only ben married two months so if he doesn't know he can get it annuled. & no I'm not trying to set us up for ridacule. He joined this site on his own & invited me as a friend. I see only that he doesn't have any friends & I have a quite a few.

no really how do we delete this...

Is it me or did anyone else notice she said he was married, separated and then says he is going to marry her? Maybe I missed something. But I'm thinking something's just not quite right with this whole thing.

well friends are one thing but he is married....ridicule is ridicule.........
marriage is sacred...think about this.....two months is nothing in a marriage...guess when the going gets rough you better get out

That post of his marrying her was back in sept when I was on my way to the wedding.